How to become to sissy

The Complete Sissy Training Guide
Part 1

Table of Contents

T ransforming yourself from a macho male into a submissive girly-girl is a more-than-daunting task. Becoming the type of girl that makes men’s cocks rock-hard and women’s pussies twitch in their panties takes more than the average sissy is ready to give.

While a so-called fem-boi is perfectly happy to pull a pair of panties over his hairy ass, then spend 5 minutes (or less) jacking off to some sissy-porn, a more serious sissy is at the opposite end of the femininity spectrum.

Her desire is to turn herself into an incredibly hot, sissified slut—one that would make any GG girl drool with envy.

She’s spent her entire life trying to be something she isn’t… a man. It’s going to take a good amount of time, effort and commitment to strip away all vestiges of her remaining masculinity.

We’re not talking about a remodel project—or even a renovation. This is going to take a complete tear-down and rebuild from the bones up.

To be both fair and honest, becoming completely sissified—from the inside out—is not for every sissy. There are a multitude of life-circumstances that can prevent many girls from going all-the-way.

This Complete Sissy Training Guide is for the sissy who is ready to hold her nose and fall backwards off the 10-meter platform. It will involve training tasks that may seem cruel, intense conditioning practices, and strict behavior modification.

If you’ve been searching for a guide where the main focus is on how to train a sissy, then you’re in the right place.

DISCLAIMER: once you reach a certain point in this sissification process, it will be pretty much impossible to turn back.

Sissy Training Basics

We’re gonna start at the very beginning. The basics of your sissification journey are not necessarily exciting and sexy (like in the above image). However they are mandatory. This sissy training guide will be—if anything—thorough. You’ll be guided along by taking one, small and perfectly placed high-heeled-step in front of another. The first of which will be your sissy name.

Your Sissy Name

I’ve noticed that initially, many sissies use a form of their male name for their sissy one. Mike becomes Michelle. There is absolutely nothing wrong with this other than it’s not very creative. To be honest, it’s taking the easy way out.

Why not spend some time online researching other possible names? Search for both first and last names. Not that you need a sissy last name at this point but last names can work as first names too. For example the last name ‘Maddison’ would also make for a cute sissy first name.

Your Sissy Email

Your email should also reflect your sissy status. Michael Brown—truckbuilderATemail.com—doesn’t quite sound like a sissy now, does it? Michelle—sissyfuckdollATemail.com—is much more appropriate. Your sissy email is basic stuff… so no questions, just go do it.

Financing Your Sissification

It’s going to take a modest amount of cash to get started with your sissification. Being a sissy will become one of your tip-top priorities. There are things like butt plugs, dildos, lip gloss and panties that a sissy absolutely must have to get started. You will need to budget these expenses in.

Panties

Start off by buying one pair of panties. Depending on the brand and style, panties will look and fit differently on you. That’s why it’s best to begin with only one pair. This will give you a good idea as to what style and size works best for you.

A good place to start your panty search is B2BODY (formerly Barbra Lingerie). Their panties tend to have a larger front panel to accommodate your soon-to-be-shrinking male anatomy. They also have an open-ended gusset/crotch liner that will be put to good use later on. Plus they’re on the fairly inexpensive side.

Training Journal

Serious sissy training requires that you track your sissification progress: in writing. You will need some sort of notebook or app to serve as your sissy journal.

Things such as: sissy habits, behavior changes, body measurements, weight loss and orgasms need to be documented. Your sissy journal will also be a handy place to keep a ongoing list of the feminine things you will need to acquire.

Take a break and spend some time to get these sissification basics in order before proceeding further.

Sissy Conditioning

It would be nice to flip a switch and instantaneously go from boy to girl. Unfortunately, years and years of male conditioning makes that virtually impossible. It will be necessary to re-condition and re-program yourself.

Transforming a male-mindset to one of an obedient sissy will require a complete brainwash. With enough work—and this sissy training guide—morphing from masculine to ultra-feminine is entirely doable.

Sissy Mantra

To start off with, you will need a sissy mantra that you will be repeating to yourself often. One mantra to begin with is fine. Later, you will want to add others. Affirming who you really are is an essential part of the sissy conditioning process. Here are a few examples:

To help you along, here is a free Sissy Mantra mp3 file that you can download.

Daily Sissy Arousal Ritual

A properly trained sissy lives her life in a continual state of low-level, erotic arousal.

This is in stark contrast to the way the typical male goes through life—experiencing the high of sexual anticipation and orgasm followed by the ambivalent low of the inevitable refractory period. Males are wired to act, more-or-less, like dogs.

A sissy is trained to behave in a much more refined, controlled and consistent manner. You will become a feminine form of grace and dignity, using your sissy-sexuality to make the world a more loving and accepting place to live.

In order to train yourself as a creature of compliance, it will be necessary to establish a daily arousal ritual. It’s time to put that pair of panties on princess.

First collect twelve photos of beautiful women and save them to your phone. They can be GG, CD, TG, sissies or a combination of the above. These pics should be of their entire bodies, not just their faces, and should epitomize of who you aspire to be. They will act as your sissy role models.

This is one of my sissy role models.

Now pick a 15 to 20 minute time segment, preferably at the same time every day. Tuck your cock—soon to be transformed into a limp, little clitty—down into your panties, between your legs. If your panties have an open-ended panty liner or gusset, this is the perfect place to stuff your clitty down into.

While scrolling through your photo collection of hot girls, you are to gently begin rubbing, or nubbing, the tip of your clitty with one finger only.

This nubbing is to be done only through the soft, sexy material of your panties. This arousal session will serve to condition you in three ways:

While performing this daily sissy arousal ritual—while repeating your sissy mantra—you want to eventually train your clitty to stay soft and limp. Although this will take some time to achieve, it is imperative that you begin to change how you have been conditioned to respond to sexual stimulation.

Establishing an Orgasm Schedule

While nubbing your clitty, you will become super aroused. You will want to cum and you probably will. When you do, just make sure any leakage occurs while gently rubbing the tip of your clitty—through your panties—with the tip of one finger only!

It will be necessary for you put yourself on a STRICT sissy orgasm schedule. To begin with, it should be no sooner than one-week intervals. Establish one day of the week where you reward yourself for exemplary sissy behavior. If you cannot make it one week between releases, then you are not ready for this sissy training, simple as that.

At some point in your sissy conditioning phase, it will be necessary to extend the time between orgasms. Long-term denial greatly enhances sissification training as it places your psyche where it belongs: in a helpless, obedient, subservient and sissified state of mind. In support of this goal, locking your clitty up in a chastity device is encouraged—and in most cases, required.

In anticipation of this event, now would be a good time to get an idea of how to size yourself correctly for a chastity cage. You can use this helpful sizing guide to get familiar with the fitting process.

Long-term chastity means just what it says—Long. Term. Because of that inescapable fact, a properly sized and comfortable chastity device is of upmost importance.

Sissy Hypno

You can expedite your sissy conditioning by listening to or watching sissy hypno files. If you prefer sissy training videos, you can find a wealth of them online.

The advantage of audio files is that you can listen to them anywhere and at anytime. I’ve made a list of several sissy hypno sites over on my Sissy Resources Page. Just scroll down to the Sissy Hypno section.

Lip Gloss

Most all women apply either lipstick or lip gloss to their lips everyday. You need to be doing that as well. If you haven’t already, purchase some lip gloss and begin applying it multiple times per day. This is one more subtle way to augment your sissy conditioning program.

Fashion Magazines and Sites

It’s imperative that you begin reading women’s fashion magazines on a regular basis. They will give you fashion and makeup ideas that you otherwise wouldn’t be aware of.

Of course there are sites such as Pinterest where you can glean fashionable ideas from too. But having few ladies magazines around the house will make you feel like… a lady.

This is a partial list—with links—for sissy fashion ideas:

Get Your Ears Pierced

There is absolutely no excuse for any sissy to not have her ears pierced. Even if you’re still presenting as a male to society, it’s perfectly acceptable for men to have pierced ears now-a-days. If you’re serious about your sissification—and you should be if you’re going through this sissy training guide—then just go get it done.

Under no circumstances, do not have your ears pierced at the mall where they blast through your earlobes using an ear piercing gun. You want the piercing done with a specialized hollow piercing needle. These needles actually remove a minuscule, circular section of ear tissue, making a clean, round hole.

If you don’t want to incur the expense of going to a professional ear-piercing studio, it’s easy enough to DIY at home. Sterilized, 16 gauge piercing needles can be purchased online as well as 16 gauge stainless steel piercing studs. I like to use a 16 gauge needle as it leaves a nice-sized hole to accommodate various sizes of earrings for later on.

Don’t believe the popularly-parroted opinion that you should only have a piercing professional perform this job. Nothing could be further from the truth. This is not rocket science. Here is a YouTube video to prove it:

The one thing that she doesn’t do in the video—and what I always do—is to use an ear piercing stud that is sized to to fit inside the piercing needle. Then, after you have the needle through the ear, simply place the stud inside the non-pointed end of the hollow needle and push everything through, all in one smooth motion.

Doing it this way doesn’t give the hole time to close up before you can get the earring through.

The main mistake most sissies make when piercing their ears is that during the aftercare phase, they tend to play around with the studs too much: incessantly turning and fiddling with them. Other than cleaning them with rubbing alcohol or hydrogen peroxide everyday, just leave the piercings alone and let them heal up.

Sissy Shaving

As a sissy, it’s imperative that you have a smoothly shaved body. Just like with ear piercings, no one bats an eye these days over a man who shaves all over. Remember, this is all about conditioning you to think and act like a girl.

Girls don’t have hair all over their bodies. Ladies, at the very least, shave their legs, armpits and pussys. Sissies shave their entire bodies.

There’s no nicer feeling than pulling a pair of nylon stockings over freshly shaved legs. First shave your legs; then get the nylons here.

Sissification is all about turning yourself into a girly-girl. So it’s time to start acting like one. If you need some shaving and/or hair removal pointers, I wrote an article about each:

Sissy Nail Care

It’s time to begin taking care of your nails; just like a girl would. Oh, you already are a girl so it’s just a matter of matching what you look like on the outside with what’s going on inside of your pretty little sissy head.

Begin by letting your nails grow out to the end of your fingertips. That’s not so long as to affect your everyday life in any way. Then you will need to keep them filed and shaped. Applying a clear, matte polish will be the final touch.

Your nails need to look as well-kept and feminine as any GG out there. Keeping the ends smoothly filed will prevent your from running your nylon stockings when pulling them up over your smoothly shaved legs.

Begin Growing Your Hair

If you have enough hair on your head, it’s time to begin letting it grow. As with pierced ears and shaving, there are plenty of men who wear their hair long—so you can too.

It takes a while for hair to grow out, so no one will really notice that much. You can keep the ends trimmed so it looks under control. When it gets long enough towards the end of your sissy training, you can practice styling it.

If you’re not lucky enough—or young enough—to have have thick enough hair, then that’s why most sissies wear wigs.

Anal Stimulation and Stretching

You will need to condition your sissy pussy to comfortably accept penetrative devices. There are three reasons for this:

No matter how tight and inexperienced you happen to be right now, it’s entirely possible—and even mandatory—to stretch things out down there so you can accommodate whatever may come your way. If that happens to be a well hung hunk, then you will need to be able to take him in without too much distress.

A good place to start is by inserting a butt plug during your daily sissy ritual. Having something in your pussy, repeating your sissy mantra while nubbing yourself through your panties will condition you to associate sexual pleasure with being penetrated.

Once you get used to wearing a butt plug, you will need to upgrade to a dildo. Don’t buy the biggest one as it will take some time to stretch your pussy out. Go for something small-to-medium-sized, then size-up later. You can find all about dildos by reading this Sissy Dildo Guide.

Towards the end of your sissy training, you will be more-than-eager to have your pussy filled up. Eventually, you will come to crave it.

A Flat Feminine Front

It is imperative that a sissy present a flat feminine front to the world. Depending on how big (or in your case, small) you are down there, it may not be necessary to incorporate any sort of sophisticated tape tucking system or to buy a fancy gaff in order effectively hide things.

Do you remember earlier about how panties are designed with a crotch liner or gusset? Most of the time the panty liner is of the open-ended variety. This narrow liner provides the perfect place to tuck your limp clitty down into.

It’s also possible to push your nuts back up and into the sockets located inside your abdominal cavity. Yes, there is a place where your balls used to live—before they dropped down—and can still be used to temporarily hide out.

If you aren’t able to accomplish this for any reason (such as a hernia patch), no worries. You can pull your nuts up near the top of your panties and it will give you a sexy camel-toe look. Don’t be too concerned about becoming aroused while being tucked as that doesn’t typically happen when you’re being restricted like this.

Besides, after listening to lots of limp clitty training hypno files, having a small, soft clitty will become the new normal for you.

To help motivate you in that downward direction, this Itty Bitty Clitty mp3 file will inspire your clitty to be what it was meant to be—perpetually limp… and useless.

With your clitty tucked down and away, inside your panty liner, you should be good to go; except maybe to the beach. If you’re gonna be wearing a bikini bottom then you will most-likely need to tuck using tape.

Here’s a YouTube video explaining how to do just that:

You also might find this article on tucking and taping that I wrote helpful.

Now that your sissy conditioning is well under way, we can turn to outward matters: how to properly physically present yourself as an ultra-feminine sissy.

Sissy Poise, Presence and Comportment

While many sissies concentrate on makeup and fashion—as well they should—it’s also important that you learn to move and act in a feminine manner. Women carry themselves differently than men do. They tend to move with grace and fluidity, whether it’s washing the dishes or walking down the street.

Peeing

Going to the bathroom could just as well been put under conditioning as sitting to pee will make you feel like a girl. Might as well get used to it. So start making it a habit to pull down your panties and pee in the gender-appropriate fashion.

When you have yourself looking good enough to venture out in public, you will be using the women’s restroom and you will definitely have to sit to pee in there.

Eating

Hopefully you’ve noticed that women eat differently than their male counterparts. They eat in a more delicate and unhurried manner. Also, their portions are much smaller than manly-sized-pig-like helpings.

Girls also open their mouths wider and use the teeth to pull the food from the fork or spoon. This lady-like eating technique will keep your lipstick on longer.

Next, girls eat slower by taking smaller bites, then chew those smallish bites for a longer time. In between bites, women place their utensil back down on the table—slowing the eating process down even further.

Lady’s are acutely aware of how to properly hold a knife, fork and spoon. It’s always in a light, dainty manner; never in a cave-man-like grip.

Lastly, when drinking, women hold the glass or cup with the thumb and first two fingers only. The last two fingers are femininely flared out, never touching the glass.

Sitting

Proper sitting posture is a dead-give-away as to your gender. Sissies should always enter the sitting position with a straight back—then keep it straight-as-a-board while sitting.

If you’re wearing a skirt or dress, then you want to lightly spread your dress out under your ass before settling into the seat of the chair or couch. This helps to keep wrinkles from forming in the material.

While in the sitting position, your legs should be either crossed or angled off to one side with the knees together. Never, never, ever, sit with your legs open—even while wearing jeans—or with one ankle crossed over the knee like a man.

This video will show you how to sit elegantly, like a lady:

Standing

The feminine form is all about proper posture. Girls stand with their shoulders pulled back, the pelvis tilted slightly forward and the legs straight. This naturally pushes your breasts out, showing them off in a not-so-subtle manner.

Your arms can be left lightly dangling at your sides, palms facing forward. One hand can be placed on the hip—but never both! It’s also permissible to lightly fold your arms together in front of you.

The feet should be positioned with one foot slightly forward, placed at a 45 degree angle. Standing with both legs wide apart is considered a dominate stance and never appropriate for a sissy.

Bending Down

Bending down—or squatting—to pick an item up, or to get a better look at something placed at a lower level, requires the proper technique. Sissies should never bend at the waist. Although that might be the easier way—especially while wearing heels—it’s not the feminine way to do it.

Just like sitting, bending should be done with the back perfectly straight and the head up. You can glance down with the eyes in order to see what you’re picking up while still keeping the head up.

Walking in Heels

The feminine walk begins with the standing posture mentioned above; shoulders back with the pelvis tilted forward. We’ll talk about walking in high heels since a sissy should eventually reach the point where she’s wearing heels 90% of the time.

Assuming the feminine-like stance already mentioned above, simply walk in a straight line, one foot placed directly in front of the other. These are short-carefully-placed-steps, allowing the heel to contact the ground slightly before the ball of the foot comes down.

The leading front leg should be perfectly straight (knee locked) when the foot makes contact with the ground. The elbows should be lightly pressed to the sides of the body while the forearms sway lightly, fore-to-aft, with the palms facing slightly forward. The gaze is fixed confidently ahead to where you’re going—not down at the feet.

Confidently strutting about in heels is the hallmark of femininity. Not many will question your gender when you can walk properly in heels. Here’s a video you should watch:

Females carry themselves with a smooth and gentle grace that is the antithesis of masculine. Be aware and watch how girls confidently move their bodies. Whether it’s sitting, standing, bending down or walking; modeling—and then mastering—feminine gracefulness should become an obsession with you.

Sissy Elegance and Refinement

Female Body Differences

Realizing the differences between the female and male body will help you to understand the feminizing measures that must be taken to overcome these shortcomings.

Obviously, a girl typically has wider hips and a smaller waist that gives her that coveted hourglass figure. She also has narrower, more delicate shoulders.

For the face, she—for the most part—doesn’t have much facial hair to deal with. A woman also has a smaller head, a narrower jaw and chin, and a much less prominent browline. Much of your facial-feminine-shortcomings can effectively be taken care of with skillful application of makeup.

Makeup will be covered extensively in Part 2 of this Complete Sissy Training Guide.

Measure Up

It’s important for a sissy to establish a body benchmark so as to track her feminine refinement progress. Obtain a cloth or fabric tape measure and record:

You will want to re-measure every couple of months so as to track your progress. As you lose weight while working out your booty in the quest for that beautiful bubble-butt-of-your-dreams, those measurements will be changing in the proper direction.

More Panties

Once you have figured out what size and style of panties you prefer, it’s time to buy at least seven pairs—one for each day of the week.

From this point forward, you’ll be wearing panties every day and also to bed every night. No exceptions! This is important to firmly implant your femininity into your psyche.

Bra and Breast Forms

It’s also time to buy your first bra. Like panties, purchase just one at first so that you can dial-in your proper size and preferred style. Be aware that lingerie companies size their bras differently. One size from one brand does not necessarily mean it will fit the same as another brand.

With those things in mind, here is a bra size calculator—for sissies—that will help immensely.

Not too-many things will make you feel more feminine than a set of silicone breast forms. Upgrading from stuffing your bra with panties or nylon stockings will make a HUGE difference with how you feel about your femininity. Although these do not need to be expensive, buying the best quality that you can afford is being sissy-smart.

Newer, less experienced sissies tend to over-do things in the size department. In reality, a ‘B’ cup is usually plenty big enough. Tits tend to look bigger under a tight fitting sweater or blouse.

Anyway, buy your bra, then get appropriately sized forms to fill it out. For me, a set of breast forms were the best girly thing that I ever bought—and that’s coming from a high heel fetishist.

Padded Butt and/or Hip Enhancers

One hindrance to your sissification process will be the inability to make your hips wider through diet and exercises. Your butt is an exception, but it will take a metric-ton of work to turn it into a bad-ass-booty.

To help achieve that much-sought-after-bubble-butt, you can buy butt-lifting and hip-enhancing shapewear. Although not inexpensive, these sissy things can make a big difference in how you present your ass to the public—or to your mirror.

A great site to see what’s possible is over at LoveMyBubbles.

Sissy Workout Outfit

In order to refine your femininity, it’s imperative that you improve the look of your body. That means exercise. Since you’re going to be working out anyway, you might as well do it in sissy-style.

All you’ll need is a nice pair of exercise tights and a sports/workout bra. These will make you feel super-feminine while you’re developing a more more feminine-like figure.

You can use your newly acquired workout clothes to do yoga. Practicing yoga will take your femininity to a new level. You’ll become more flexible—like a girl is—and learn to move more gracefully.

If you can’t join a yoga studio, it’s easy enough to practice yoga at home. There are way-too-many awesome YouTube yoga channels to mention here. It’s also well-worth reading my article: 7 Reasons Why Every Sissy Should Practice Yoga.

Arched Eyebrows

As already noted above, men have a protruding browline. You can make that part of your face less prominent—and much more feminine looking—by shaping your eyebrows. Buy yourself a quality pair of tweezers and start tweezing away.

Yes, it might hurt a little but… beauty is a bitch. Always tweeze from below. You’re going for a high-arching brow, which means that you want to leave the upper hairs while removing the lower ones.

Makeover Videos

Nothing is more important to refining your feminine look than makeup. You don’t need me to be telling you this, but you do need to begin practicing. Genetic girls have spent most of their lives practicing makeup everyday. No wonder they’re so damn good at it!

Just doing your makeup once-per-week will enhance your femininity significantly. It will take some time to get good, but good you will get. If you’re serious about sissification, then becoming skillful at applying makeup is non-negotiable.

Head on over to YouTube and start watching makeup tutorials. Decide what look you’re going for, then take a couple of hours each week and begin practicing. Here’s a video to get you started:

Fashion Ideas

You can get a multitude of makeup and fashion ideas from reading women’s fashion magazines. I already gave you a list of them (with links) earlier in this article. You can read them online but it’s a good idea to have a few hard copies around the house. They will make you feel girly just seeing them laying around.

Fashion magazines have a way of presenting clothes, shoes, makeup and fragrances in the most appealing manner. They are marketing geniuses at making a girl feel beautiful and sexy; and those are exactly the type of elegant, feminine feelings you want to instill in yourself.

This is the End… of Part 1

You’ve come a long way sissy. Up to this point we’ve covered:

Part 2 of The Complete Sissy Training Guide includes:

You can find Part 2 right here.

Are you ready to go “Down The Sissification Rabbit Hole?” Then you’ll want to read this…

So, You Want to be a Sissy?

You’ve finally realized your inner sissy desires and decided to act on them. You want to be a sissy but- where to begin? The feminization process does not happen overnight. It requires studiousness and obedience; completing all of your assignments in a timely manner and to the best of your ability.

As with anything in life, there will be times you question your sissy desires and wonder if you are on the correct path. You may even be tempted to neglect your feminization assignments from time to time, which is why it is so important for you to have a Sissy School Mistress in charge of your sissy transformation.

Your Sissy School Mistress will also help you discover your motivation for wanting to be a sissy along with all the nuances that go along with it. Once she knows these things, she will be able to map out an individualized feminization path to guide you through the sissification process.

What Drives Your Sissy Desires?

First and foremost, you must take an honest assessment of why you want to become a sissy. What is the driving force behind your sissy desires? It is very important to take some time to reflect on this and truly understand your motivation for wanting to be feminized. The motivation behind your desire to be a sissy isn’t always immediately evident yet knowing what drives your desire to be a sissy is a crucial part of your transformation.

There are as many reasons for wanting to be a sissy as there are sissies but almost all sissies fit into at least one (or more) general categories:

Additionally, it is important to understand whether you being a sissy fulfills your own desires or whether you are submissive and desire sissy servitude on one or more levels. The road to sissification looks quite different for each of these situations.

There are many facets to your sissy needs and desires and taking the time to recognize and understand your sissy motivation in the beginning will make for a much smoother sissy transformation process.

Appearance and Voice

One you know what motivates your desire to become a sissy, it is important to get to work right away on your sissy training. As mentioned previously, being a good sissy takes work. You cannot just throw on a wig and lipstick and expect to be considered a full-fledged sissy. A true sissy knows her feminization is a never-ending process and is always striving to be a better sissy today than she was yesterday.

A sissy’s appearance is a first impression; therefore, great care must be taken to look as feminine as she can be. As with anything pertaining to sissies, there are many facets to appearance; many of which are determined by the type of sissy you want to be. Some general appearance guidelines are:

Hair removal – A sissy should be free from all body hair. If that isn’t possible for whatever reason, she should at least have her legs, groin, and ass smooth and hairless at all times.

Skin care – A sissy should always have smooth, exfoliated and well-moisturized skin. Even if going completely hairless is not an option, there is NO EXCUSE for ignoring proper skin care.

Mani/pedi – A sissy should always have nicely manicured fingers and toes at all times. If it isn’t possible to use colored polish on the nails, at least buff them to a shine and/or use clear polish on them.

Makeup – A sissy should always, at minimum, be wearing a lightly tinted moisturizer with nude or pale pink lip balm, gloss or lipstick. There will always be occasions for full makeup so it is important to be sure you have everything you need to do a proper full sissy makeup routine, as well as learning the proper application techniques.

Along with appearance, a sissy’s voice rounds out first impressions so it is important to continuously work on achieving the best sissy voice possible.

It is all too common (and easy) for a sissy to decide there is no way the deep, booming voice she was born with can become feminine enough to make it worth working on but I am here to tell you that that is wrong way to look at it.

There are many vocal control techniques and other tasks that will aid in the voice feminization process. Your Mistress will know precisely which techniques will work best for you and assign corresponding tasks and deadlines.

Behavior modification

There are many facets to behavior modification throughout the sissificiation process, starting with a few basics like:

Sex Integration (real or fantasy)

You and your sissy Mistress will need to determine whether you should be called a sissy gurl or a sissy boi. There are several facets to each one of these classifications, and though every sissy is unique, there are some generalization that will help determine where you fit in this classification category.

Along with determining whether you are a sissy gurl or a sissy boi, a determination needs to be made as to what to call that thing between your legs. Is it a clitty, a sissy stick, a teenie peenie, etc. What is the hole in your backside to be called? Is it an ass, a pussy, or something else?

All sissies should be good at oral servitude for their Mistress, regardless of their sexual preference. Aside from that, do you find yourself craving to be as girly as you can be, including pleasuring a man; or do you prefer pleasuring women, even in sissy mode?

Teaching Methods and Discipline

Just as every Mistress has her own teaching and disciplinarian style, every sissy has her way of learning and obedience level. That said, teaching and discipline are a very necessary part of the feminization process. Much can be said on this topic, but I’ll save that for Feminization: Teaching Styles and Discipline Methods.

You Want to be a Sissy- Now You Know What You Need to Do

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How I Got Labeled a Sissy and Why It’s Ok to Embrace Your “Weakness”

Growing up, my family called me Sissy. If anyone outside the family asked why that nickname they told varying stories, once I was nicknamed after the actress, then when my sister was born, they said because I was a Big Sister. None of those were true.

“Let me give you some counsel, bastard. Never forget what you are, for surely the world will not. Make it your strength. Then it can never be your weakness. Armor yourself in it, and it will never be used to hurt you.” Said by Tyrion Lannister in Game of Thrones

This has to be one of the best quotes ever from Game of Thrones. As soon as I heard it, I knew I loved it. So I armor myself in being a Sissy and refuse ever to let anyone hurt me for it again.

So How Exactly I Got Labeled a Sissy, Let me Tell You

Witch Craft

My mother’s family honestly believe they are witches (not joking like “she’s such a witch”). But, that they were born into a long line of witches and warlocks and have witch blood.

But, from an early age, I went with my father’s family to church (a fire and brimstone kind). And at a very young age, I wholeheartedly started to believe in God.

So, of course, my mother’s conviction that I was a witch and needed to try and practice magic came into direct conflict with me not wanting to feel the wrath of God and burn in hell.

“Only a Sissy would be worried about that,” I was told when I mentioned God wouldn’t like it.

Lighting Bugs

I still remember the first time I witnessed my mother rip a lightening bug in half and stick the bottom half of its corpse on her finger like a ring. “See, now you do it.” She said

I shook my head no, I was utterly repulsed by the whole thing. I wasn’t afraid of the bug, but the idea of ripping one in half for fun and wearing its dead body as jewelry.

I Refused to Stab Someone

In elementary school, a girl was making fun of me because my parents didn’t live together. They had separated, they never divorced, that would have been too normal. And my mother had taken to telling everyone who would listen how horrible and rotten my father was. Which is how everyone even found out.

So one particular day, this girl was being exceptionally vicious, making fun of me, and I went home and cried.

My mother wanted to know what was going on, so I told her. She nodded and said she knew just what to do. I figured she was going to bring me ice cream or something equally as enjoyable.

Instead, when she returned to my bedroom, she had a huge needle looking thing in her hand, I found out it was a hatpin.

“Just take this on the bus and stab her right in the butt.” That’s what my mother said, and I laughed.

I thought she was joking, “Here take it, put it in your backpack.”

I then realized she was not joking, “I can’t stab her!”

As if she didn’t even hear me. “Right in the butt, she’ll get the point.” I shook my head no and my mother continued. “I used to do this to girls all the time on the bus.”

“Did they make fun of you too?” For a split second I wondered if this is what made my mother so mean spirited about things, was she picked on too?

She laughed, “No, they were just little Sissy’s, and I thought it was fun to stab them. They always cried.”

“Didn’t you get in trouble?”

She shook her head no and moved in closer to me, “If you get caught, just cry and say they were the one who had stabbed you.”

I refused to take the hatpin, marking me as a further Sissy. My sister asked if she could use the hatpin, this cheered my mother up.

I Refused to Tattle on My Aunt

My mother has a large collection of sisters/witches, and they get along as well as Democrats and Republicans. What usually happens is a few of them will gang up on another one of them, but these alliances change quickly.

My mother was mad at my one Aunt. Honestly, it could have been for something petty, or nothing at all. She most likely was just jealous, this is what usually set off a fight amongst them. Their parents made them always compete for love and affection, so it came naturally to them to treat their siblings like the enemy.

My mother put the car in park outside the bowling alley where I was getting dropped off for a youth league. “Did you tell that boy?” She asked as I reached for the handle, I quietly said no.

But before I could open the door, she turned off the radio, and I knew it had just gotten serious. “Why not?”

“I don’t want to.” I sighed and mentioned that I was late. We were always late everywhere we went growing up, I hated it.

“Tell him, or you’re grounded.” That was always her go-to punishment, especially when she knew I had plans. I was going to go to a friend’s house that night for a sleepover.

What she wanted me to tell a boy inside was that his dad was having an affair with my aunt. I’m sure in hopes of him running home and telling his mother. But I wanted no part of any of this. And at twelve, what kid would want to be part of that kind of sick twisted game?

Long story short when she picked me up (late), she asked again, and I finally said that I would never tell him. I was called a Sissy and grounded for a month.

The Sissy Truth

It’s really a combination of them all, I guess (not to mention the thousand other little times I lived up to the Sissy name growing up). But it doesn’t bother me being a Sissy, I’m actually proud of it.

Because the truth is if being kind and a bit fearful is wrong. Then I don’t want to be right.

What Do Other People Consider Your Biggest Faults?

Think of how they can actually be your strengths, embrace them, and never let anyone use them against you!

The one thing about my childhood that I am the proudest of is that I never let people change who I really was. I continued to love God and all creatures big and small, and I liked befriending anyone who got picked on or made fun of.

Figure out who you are and wear it like a badge of honor!

Ok, it did get a little bit weirder for a while. When my mother remarried, my stepfather called me Missy instead of Sissy. I think he honestly thought my mother was saying Missy, or maybe he just didn’t have the heart to call me Sissy.

Then my mother got a new dog and called it Missy so then even my stepfather started calling me Sissy.

Tips to Become a Good Sissy Maid

Sissy maids are expected to be subservient and submissive to their superiors. The ideal maid seeks to be obedient above everything. She must respect her superior, and do all the tasks and housework they tell her to. The uniform and the feminization process are also important, but vary between situations.

This article will focus on helping you and other crossdressing sisters to become perfect sissy maids. I’ll talk about the manners and behaviors you must learn, and give you some guidelines about clothing.

1. What is a sissy maid?

Well, this is a rather simple question. A sissy person, in short, is a man that enjoys dressing up as a woman and acting overly feminine. We can say that it’s a subcategory of crossdresser, that incorporates even more feminine behaviors and mannerisms. In most cases, sissy crossdressers act delicate and fragile, but still sexy and sometimes horny.

But what about the maid part? Well, things start to get a bit more interesting from now on. A sissy maid is a man that, besides dressing up as a woman and acting feminine, also likes to serve a superior. I’m using superior as a generic term, because it can be either a master, mistress, or any other loved or significant other. It’s comparable to a role play, where the maid will be responsible for the role of making the superior happy and satisfied. It may include doing various kinds of housework, such as cleaning and cooking. In some extreme cases, the role play involves a certain degree of humiliation and even punishment. It’s up to you to know your boundaries and limitations.

2. How should you dress up?

The first step to becoming a proper maid is to dress up like one. Now, there are many ways to do that, so I’ll give you some examples and guidelines to follow. The most common outfit for sissy maids is the classic french maid outfit. It looks good, and tends to be both practical and sexy at the same time. Regarding this outfit, you have some options as well. For example, you can get it whole as one piece, which tends to be more expensive but practical. Or you can put it together yourself, spending more time but less money. Let me talk a little bit more about each method.

◆ Buying the whole kit at once

It’s fairly easy to find maid outfits for sale nowadays. It’s a common trend among young crossdressers and sissy femboys, even if they don’t want to act as maids sometimes. As a result, french maid costumes are cheap and easy to buy. However, you must double check quality and size of what you’re buying. Those cheap costumes may wear out twice as fast as standard quality materials, and each branch has its own sizing chart. Quality costumes are more expensive, but come with everything you need to become a maid. Here are some examples of good maid outfits, if you choose to buy a complete kit:

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◆ Assembling a kit yourself

It’s less practical than buying everything at once, but it may save you some money. Besides that, buying your own kit results in an unique outfit that suits your needs and fits you better. But to do that, you’ll need to buy all the components for your costume, and put everything together. Let me teach you how to do it.

For the basic outfit, you’ll need a french dress, or at least a petticoat with a proper top. These are not difficult to find either, and can give you an idea of how to proceed. The classic french outfit has these in black, but the color scheme can vary according to your needs. In addition to that, an overbust corset works well with this outfit to give you a more feminine silhouette. It also helps you to keep a straight posture and behave more “in character”. On top of all of that, a white apron completes the look and accentuates the maid look.

To enhance the effect, and look even more feminine and sissy, you can use some accessories as well. The first thing I can suggest, is a nice pair of stockings, and some sort of head garment. Whithe stockings, pantyhose, and fishnets are common options for the legs, while veils, tiaras and “cat ears” are often used in the head. By wearing a wig, your face looks more feminine, but some people prefer to keep their natural hair for the outfit. I’ll leave some useful links here with some recommended products.

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3. How to behave as a maid

Now you know how to dress up as a sissy maid, but to fully become one, you still must learn the proper behaviors. Above everything, a maid must learn obedience. This is the key attribute, as the others may vary according to your superior. To be a maid is to serve, and to do things as you’re told. This is the main point of the maid fetish in most cases, and I know it can be different sometimes. But I’m focusing on this definition since it’s the most common. My point is that once you learn how to listen and obey your superior, you won’t fail them as a maid.

As I’ve mentioned beforehand, serving may involve a variety of tasks. As a maid, your superior will give you tasks, which you’re expected to complete. Most of them are related to housekeeping, so you may need to clean and cook for the person. In many cases, it also involves a certain degree of sexual control of the superior over the maid. Some may request chastity to some degree, or demand a range of sexual favors.

Sissy maids are also expected to act and look feminine while serving their superiors. It’s up to you to get out of character while no one’s looking, as long as you do the chores you were supposed to. But your mistress may require you to keep in character while they’re observing. This way, taking part in feminine activities such as sewing and manicure are encouraged.

4. Finding a master or mistress

Now, let’s head to the last part. You still need to find a person to serve. If you are in a relationship with someone, ask them how they would feel about it. If they are ok with it, you can start to explore this world and experience something you always wanted. And even if you’re alone, it’s still possible to find a dominant superior. Quickly looking it up on Google can bring up a lot of new information, and help you to find someone in your area. However, you must on the internet, and make sure any arranged meeting is safe and in an open area.

5. Practical tips to improve your maid experience

◆ Think about the kind of relationship you want

Sissy maids engage in many different kinds of relationships with their masters or mistresses. Some dress up as maids for short periods of time, while others stay like that 24/7. The intensity of the tasks also vary, as does the power of the superior over the maid. In most cases, obedience is to be expected, without questioning. But before you start, make the details clear with the dominant person so that you both enjoy the experience.

◆ Consider a safe word

The tasks and humiliation that eventually comes with this kind of role play may not please everyone. If you’re not enjoying the experience, then there’s no point in playing along, is there? It’s okay to have boundaries and not want to cross them. If you’re going to be a sissy maid for someone, but have some doubts about it, arrange a safe word for the relationship. It’s used to communicate your emotional state, and to let your dominant know that you’re uncomfortable. It’s generally used to interrupt the role play for the day or at least a while. Communication is important to ensure everyone has a safe and enjoyable environment.

So, as we’ve seen, a sissy maid is a man that dresses and behaves like a woman, and is submissive to its superior. Dressing up as a maid is something that has variations, so you can recreate the maid outfit in a way that is practical for you. Of all the skills a maid should practice, obedience is the most important, as it makes you a versatile maid. This way, you can fit with any dominant, as long as you enjoy it and be yourself.

Steps By Step Guide On How To Become A Sissy In 3 Simple Steps Easily

You originally aspired to achieve male Alpha status in order to receive the attention you desire, but you have fallen far short. You no longer fantasize about turning the heads of the ladies (how to become a sissy) you pass on the street; instead, you fantasize about being turned into a sissy. You know you won’t be able to compete with most men, so you’d want to try something new.

You desire to be seductive and feminine. You want a physique that is smooth, seductive, and delicate. You’d want to dress in lingerie and women’s clothing. You want to be a man’s bitch and wear cosmetics. You want to suck as many cocks as possible while pleasing as many men as possible. The issue is that you don’t know where to begin.

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Step One: Begin with a Simple Project.

Trying on your girlfriend’s/sister’s/cousin’s/clothes mother’s is the easiest way to get started. becoming a sissy, it’s how most sissies and crossdressers get started, despite the fact that it’s unethical (and kind of nasty in my opinion). I don’t condone this, but I understand that most sissies aren’t brave enough to go out and buy their own lingerie. I also recognize that many sissies that do this aren’t really drawn to that individual, but rather to the lingerie.

Buying your underwear on Amazon is another simple way to get started. Because you’re not being a thief or a creep, this is the greatest place to start. You’ll also need to buy your own stuff at some point, so cutting corners isn’t a good idea.

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Step Two: Identity And Mind

You can start your transformation now that you’ve validated your suspicions. Let’s begin with your thoughts. becoming a sissy, your job is to please males as much as possible. Sissies are essentially dumb automatons. Sissies give up their free will and identity whereas crossdressers keep theirs. You must no longer consider your personal happiness because it is a distant second to that of all men.

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Step Three: Health Plan

Maintaining a thin body necessitates a diet plan. If you want to be a good sissy, you should avoid foods that are high in calories and protein. Becoming a sissy. when it comes to diet control, having enough vitamins and nutrition is critical. As a result, you must develop a healthy meal plan that is appropriate for your height and weight.