How to confess to your love

The direct approach

There are many different ways to make you crush understand that you love him… But very often, even though it’s the scariest, the most effective method is also the most direct one! Eternal insinuations be gone! If you feel like you’ve been beating around the bush for too long, go for it!

“I was meaning to tell you for a while, and I didn’t know how to say it, so I’m going to be as direct as possible : I like you a lot, and I’d want you and I to be more than just friends.”

“I love you, there I said it, and whatever your response might be, I am relieved to have finally managed to tell you, and at least I won’t have the regret of having missed out on something that could have been amazing.”

The more subtle approach

If the previous approach frightens you way too much, or appears to you as too risky (and rightfully so, but life is too short to be meek-hearted!), you can always go for a gentler solutions :

“I wished to tell you that I am thrilled to have met you almost a year ago now! You have become in turn a stranger, an acquaintance, a friend, a confidant… Today, I feel ready to take our relationship to a new level…”

“The other day, when we spent our afternoon at the mall, I realized while looking at you that what I felt was now no longer friendship. No, it’s now way more than that…”

An other solution, which nevertheless requires a fair amount of courage, can be, for those wishing to declare there love face to face, to use the text message to initiate the process, without showing your hand in full. Thus, once you have sent him :

“Can we see each other this weekend? I have something important to tell you.”

There’s no turning back, the game is afoot. And since you no longer have the choice, you will not be able to delay your declaration, you’ll have to go for it! Giving yourself an ultimatum can be an excellent way, for some people, to finally decide to go head on!

How To Confess Your Love Via Text And Share Your Romantic Feelings

The sad thing about the modern day and age is that a lot of communication goes through the digital world. Facebook, Snapchat and texting are all the ways we primarily talk to our loved ones everyday. You’re probably wondering to yourself, ‘ Why is that sad?’ Well, when it comes to digital communication it can be hard to get the feelings that you’re expressing across. Things get, literally, lost in translation. To help you make sure you are expressing all the love you absolutely can for your partner, we have a list of 50 beautiful love text messages that you can send to your partner anytime to make them smile!

There is no hiding the fact that my love for you is deeper than any ocean there is! My love burns brighter and stronger than any star there is in the sky! My love is greater than any mountain! What I’m trying to say is: I love you!

Wow, you cannot get much more intense with a single text than you can with this one! Warning: Only used for true lovers.

I more than like you. I absolutely love you!

A simple, yet quirky way to express your feelings for your partner.

Have I told you lately how perfect, gorgeous and amazing you are?

Everyone needs a boost of confidence every once in awhile. It’s important to let your partner know that you are attracted to them physically as well as emotionally!

I’m having a day today where I realized that I would be so utterly lost without you in my life! I just wanted to shoot you a text to let you know how important you are to me!

Forget a boring I love you text and stun your partner with a romantic love text like this one!

I dreamt of you all night and woke up with a smile on my face! I had to let you know a.s.a.p.

Your lover will swoon when they read this adorable text.

Even though I see a lot of people in one day when I’m gone, I can still only think of you. You have taken over my thoughts! But I like it!!

Make sure to let them know that no matter how many people you see, they are your number one! They will definitely appreciate hearing this or something similar to this every now and then.

Remember the last time we kissed? Yeah, me too. I wish we were doing it again right now.

Wow, how cute is this? We sense some major blushing coming.

I know I’ll come home to you at the end of the day, but right now I miss you more than words can say!

A perfect love text to send if you and your partner live together. They always enjoy hearing how much you miss them! Who doesn’t?

If I could have one wish, I would wish that you could see yourself from my point of view. So then you would realize just how special you really are to me.

A little corny, but absolutely worth sending just for the single smile it will put on your lover’s face!

I don’t know how I ever made it through a single day before I met you!

We all like to hear how we have made an impact on someone’s life, don’t we? Your partner will, too. It will strengthen your bond. Yes, a single text message can strengthen a bond. Especially one as powerful as this one.

Your smile is the most beautiful thing on this planet. Without it I wouldn’t know how to continue on.

Compliments will get you everywhere in life!

Everything that you do brings absolute joy to my life. Thank you for that. Thank you for being you.

Once in awhile thank your love for being, well, themselves.

There are two times in my life I want to have you by my side: Now and forever.

Cliche, but is a dorky, cute and sincere way.

It was not my ear that you ended up whispering into, it was my heart. It was not just my lips that you laid a kiss on, but also on my soul.

A poetic way to tell them your feelings for them. Romance alert over here!

My passion for you burns brighter than any flame that was ever lit. It will burn and burn until I no longer live. I love you.

Sometimes you have to get a little deeper with your texts or your conversations will start to get boring. This text will definitely spice things up in no time!

My favorite thing to hear is your voice. My favorite thing to feel is your skin on my skin. My favorite thing to smell is the scent of your body. I adore you.

What’s a better way to describe your love than involving your senses?

Today is the day that I confess my undying love for you. So here it goes: I love you.

A perfect love text message to send if you have no said the big L word yet!

You are the paradise I have always dreamed about you. I would not complain if I got stranded on your forever and ever.

A cute analogy is always a good idea to send your lover anytime of the day!

When you came into my life, I suddenly realized why it had never worked out with any others before you.

Really want to get it across that your head over heels for them? Try sending them a meaningful text such as this one.

You will always be in my head and my heart. Whatever happens, I will never stop loving you. I promise as long as I live, I will never let you go. One day I’ll marry you and cherish you forever.

Making a commitment to your lover takes guts, but you can do it! It makes it easier when you use romantic words like the ones above.

I will never lie to you. I will always be honest with you about what is in my heart. I will always keep you safe. The love that I have for you cannot compare to any other love on earth. I promise to never take you for granted and to always be there for you.

Trust in a relationship is almost as important as love. Let them know that they can trust you with this beautiful message.

You are the perfect reason for all my sleepless nights. You are the reason that I hold my pillow tight. It’s you that I’m thinking of when I lay down at night. And you are the reason I can’t sleep without saying goodnight.

Looking for a sweet, sincere goodnight message? Well, you’ve found it!

I want to make you happy in anyway that I possibly can.

Sometimes these are just the words your partner needs to hear in the middle of a busy day.

I know I say I love you a lot, but I’m afraid you don’t understand how serious I am! So I’ll say it again and again, day after day.. I love you!!

The best way to tell them you love them is by just simply stating it.

I get the most amazing feeling in the world when you smile in my direction. Because I know that, even if it was for a second, I crossed your mind.

Everyone likes to feel special. You can make your love feel more than special with these kind words.

There just aren’t enough words to describe how I feel about you. You are too perfect for me.

Raising the self esteem in your partner is one of the most important things that you can do in any relationship! Be sure to do it with adorable texts like this one.

If you ever asked me to pick between you and my dreams, I wouldn’t know what to say. Because being with you is my only dream.

Awh, if they don’t melt into a puddle over this one then nothing will pierce that cold heart of theirs!

This morning I just wanted to text you and say that you are the man of my dreams.

A dreamy good morning text.

I am so lucky that you are my reality, too. I love you and never want to lose you.

You are lucky to have your partner and they deserve to know it every single day!

Keep calm and remember that I love you.

A cute take on those “keep calm and”… things!

Love may be a weird thing, but it’s definitely not weird when I’m with you. I love you baby.

Life can get strange sometimes, but let your partner know that it’s perfectly normal as long as they’re around.

Before I met you I never knew what it was like to smile for no reason at all.

Oh! This is too cute!

I would rather be in Hell than in Heaven without you.

If this doesn’t get a smile out of them then nothing will!

You have no idea how fast my heart races when I first see you every morning.

Although you might see your partner all too often, it’s good to make them aware that your feelings never grow old.

Even after all this time, I still get excited as if I just met you. You have that power over me. I love you so much.

They will be absolutely stunned by your charm when they open this love text from you!

Thank you for all the irreplaceable memories that you have given to me! I can’t wait to make many more! Sending my love to you today.

This is perfect for couples who are just starting a life together!

Words, no matter how special, could never start to even tell you how much love for you I hold in my heart.

When you love someone, it’s hard to express it. But it’s a good things you have love texts like these to help you out.

I love your eyes, I adore your smile. I cherish your ways and enjoy your style. What else can I say? You are one of a kind. And forever always on my mind!

Make sure to tell your lover that you love everything about them. It’s crucial to being happy in a relationship.

Someone who believes in me. Someone who loves me the most. Someone to call my one and only. You are that someone. I love you babe.

Make your dedication clear with this adorable message.

Whenever I think it is impossible to love you anymore than I already do, you prove me wrong.

Does your partner continue to surprise you everyday and make you love them more!? Then this is the perfect text for you to use!

I want to write my love for you in the sand. So that when the waves wash it away, I can write it over and over.

Wow, how breathtaking is this one? We can’t get over the cuteness. It just seems poetic and serious all at once, doesn’t it? Your partner will think they’ve met the next Shakespeare!

Sending you a virtual pinky promise that binds our love forever!

A dorky, but charming way to tell them you love them.

Quick! Call the police! It has to be illegal for you to look that good!

If humor is more of your thing then go ahead and send this quirky text message. It’s definitely cute and funny.

Alert! Alert! I have the most wonderful partner in the world!

When you feel like you’ve truly found the one, you are going to want to find creative ways to let them know they are perfect for you. This text can be one of those ways.

I can’t promise you that I can fix all of your promises. However, I can promise that you will never have to face them alone.

This is a great message to use if your partner has been going through a tough time lately.

You are the missing piece that I’ve been trying to find and I’m ecstatic to have finally found you. Now everything is falling perfectly into place. And it’s all thanks to you, my love.

When you’ve found your soulmate it’s hard to express how much they mean to you, we get that. This text will tell them everything that they need to know about how you feel towards them!

I forgot to tell you how perfect you are before you left this morning, so I figured I would send you a quick text!

Didn’t have much time to talk to your loved one this morning? Shoot them this adorable sentence and all will be right in the world once more.

You are the only person that can make a smile appear on my face when I want to cry.

Not one for the sappy texts? That’s okay, you don’t have to get too sappy to be romantic. A simple message such as this one says all you need to say to let your partner know how important they are to you.

You always have the ability to make me forget how to breathe. You are, quite literally, breathtaking.

Ah, a great message to use for an early relationship. You will, no doubtedly, make their day if you send them this!

The only time you’ll find my grinning like a fool, is when I open a text message and it says it’s from you.

Is your partner the only thing that can put a true smile on your face? Let them know with this cute message.

Hey! I wanted to know if I could borrow a kiss. I promise to return it as soon as I see you.

Awh, how adorable is this?! We can’t think of anything better to say to put a smile on their face immediately. You can possibly even get a slight chuckle out of them. And what’s better than making your partner laugh and smile all at once? Our answer: NOTHING!

You have turned my life upside down, but I couldn’t be any happier than I am right now!

This is a great message for if you have been in a relationship for awhile. It displays that although you may have your ups and downs, you wouldn’t wish for your life to be any other way. Your partner makes everything you go through worth it!

How to Not Confess Your Love
This Can Kill Your Love

Do you want to know what’s the best way to confess your love to her?

You want a surefire way so your confession is perfect, so you can get her as your girlfriend smoothly and effortlessly.

You think a lot of ways about it. In your brain, you rehearse those confession tactics many many times to make sure you will not mess it up.

If you don’t have any idea of confession, then you can check and research around the internet, chances are you will get a ton of ideas to confess your love to her.

And the thing you may feel more good is, the idea from internet will never run out.

There are many forms of confession. I did a little research to see what are the forms of confession available on internet. See the video below before you read on.

12 ways to confess your love

I’m impressed how creative are people to come up so many ideas of love confessions. There are a lot not reveal yet, you can google it yourself.

However, as the headline mentioned, this article is not attempt to teach you how to confess your love, but how to NOT confess your love.

The video above is just a joke, but love confession basically is a bad idea for your loving relationships. The idea you have to confess your feelings to her so you only have chance to get her as your girlfriend is totally a BS.

And then, she tells you, it was the nicest thing any guy ever did for her. You feel very happy. However, nothing has changed since the day after.

You feel weird, she was happy with the confession, everything seems go smoothly, but the friendship just doesn’t turn into loving relationships.

Chances are, you started to feel desperate. You are insecure and started to act needy and clingy. You may confess your feelings once more, and want to solidify the relationship as soon as possible.

The result. you guessed it.. you received a «nice guy» card.

Such kind of result is not a surprise actually. This is a CLASSIC nice guy behavior.

You may heard before that, «nice guy always finish last», and that’s true. You should never act like a nice guy because it’s an attraction killer, the surefire way. See also: Warning: stop to be a nice guy

You have to understand how the attraction works. There’s no way or pickup lines for you to apply then suddenly all girls craves for you. It’s not you do XX, then you’ll get XX result from girls. Things don’t work like this way.

No matter how many times, how many ways, how unique you love confession is, there’s no sort of confession of love make a girl want you.

Therefore, if you are here to find ways to confess your love to her, I want to say sorry to you. Because love confession is not a recommended way to get her in your arms. There’s ONLY ONE situation is suitable to confess your feelings, I will talk about it later.

In fact, confession of love reeks of desperation. You’ll behave like a wussy even if you do it in confident way because women have great sixth sense. They can catch the subtle messages that you are so insecure inside, and wish to get positive response.

The risks simply are not worth to take. The idea of you have to confess your feelings, so only she will know your feeling is not correct. When you interact with her, date her, call her, chances are, she knows you liked her already. Confession just help her to confirm that fact.

This «must confess your love» idea you may learned it from television, movies, your parents, or listening to what women say they want. But it’s so pity that, it doesn’t work well and most cases are backfire eventually.

You need to know the fact that, women don’t know what they want, but they always know what they don’t want. When a girl says she wants a nice guy who treats her well, never bullies her, buy her presents, flowers, blah blah blah all kind of nice things, but when you do all what they say, she still don’t like you.

Instead, she likes a guy who hurts her, doesn’t treat her well, makes her sad, blah blah blah. Her behaviors and what she said are complete opposite.

In my previous articles why are women attracted to bad guys I have explained that women are not attracted to nice guys. And love confession is a classic nice guy behavior. It’s very obvious that why confession doesn’t work.

Here’s one small tip for you. If you want to know what attracts the girl you liked, check out her ex boyfriend. Her ex boyfriend is the exact BLUEPRINT of what kind of guy she is attracted to. (Assume she was serious with her ex)

Copying behavior

In my free ebook Relationships Made Simple I have explained that copying behavior always happen in females instinctively. Most of them don’t trust their own judgement on choosing a spouse.

Therefore, they are tend to look around and see what the crowd is doing. When women find that their peers are chasing the same guy, then that guy must has something go for him. So they will copy this bahavior and choose the same or similar type of guy.

This is how the fashion works. When a star is getting attention, chances are he will get more and more attention like snow balling. So he gets more fans, and more girls crave for him.

In other words, when your girl figures out other girls want you, your value in her mind will skyrocket. And she will try to get your attention and compete with other girls because not wanting to lose you. She’s attracted to you because she finds you are attractive to other girls.

Now reveal the answer, what is the best and only one situation for you to confess your love to her?

The answer is, when she’s attracted to you. Period.

You want to always remind yourself, don’t be a nice guy. Don’t be desperate, insecure, needy, clingy and wussy. Eliminate the idea you want to confess your feelings to her. Remember, declarations of love NEVER work. Never.

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Sweet Love Confession Text Message for Her/Him

Love Confession Text Message: Looking for a beautiful love text message to express your deep love for that special person, we have some beautiful collections of love confession text messages to make him or her happy when you send one across.

Love is the beauty of the heart, and expressing your love to one another is the affirmation of love and trust, just the word ‘I LOVE YOU’ means a lot when you said it with sincerity.

Love Confession Text Message for Her

There isn’t a word big enough to describe what you mean to me. When you smile, my whole world lights up, even when it’s cloudy. Our love is eternal like the stars in the skies and the oceans in our world.

Early in the morning, the sun whispers your love to my heart I wake up every day with your love in my flourish in my heart.

Love Confession Text Message for Him

I have never loved someone with all my heart before but you.

Cute Ways to Confess Your Love Over Text

I will be yours forever and I’ll never say goodbye. I love you so much, babe. There is nothing I wouldn’t do for you. You fill my heart with joy, every day with you is like a dream come true.

The Ultimate Guide On How To Confess Your Love To A Girl And NOT Get Rejected

by Steffi D’Souza · July 28, 2016

Of all the rejections that are there in this world, being rejected by a girl may seem like the most devastating one. It means that someone simply dismissed you and discounted your feelings. Whatever maybe the reason, it’s quite depressing to deal with the aftermath of rejection. As human beings, we tend to take matters to the heart, and there on, it’s only downhill.

Whether it’s being rejected on a dating website, or after you’ve known the person for long, rejection is simply humiliating and can put you in a bitter mood. It’ll affect your self-confidence and make you sad. You’d begin questioning yourself and everything about yourself, and it’s a very sad state to be in. Hence, it’s important that you confess your love to a girl in a way that she simply says yes!

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Sometimes, you know a person forever and you can’t simply put your finger on their feelings, and when you make your move, you are shocked to learn that she didn’t feel the same, or you were simply friend-zoned! Tragedy!

Other times, you think you know her well and she too has dropped those hints and you caught the right signals from her, but, when it’s time to express your feelings, you realize that she isn’t ‘ready’ yet or simply wants to play around, or worse, it means nothing to her (on the lines of friends with benefits). So, there could be various scenarios and various ways to get rejected, but here is a simple guide on how to confess your love to a girl and not face rejection.

It needs proper planning, place, and time. Also, how you do it is important. While we don’t always focus on methodologies and being meticulous in a romantic relationship, when it comes to confessing your love to a girl, you may want to consider being ‘by the book’ so as to not get rejected by her.

There are only two stages, if you really want to get down to specifics:

However, here are 12 total ways on how to confess your love to a girl and not get rejected by her through the planning and the execution stages.

I) Planning stage: The planning stage will involve all the things you need to consider before making your ‘move’ of expressing your feelings to the girl you are interested in.

1. Begin with talking

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So, if you like someone, make sure they know you exist. So, start with what may seem the most basic thing in the world. Do the talk. You may have heard people say that, ‘That’s how it all begins.’ If you can’t gather courage to talk to her and break the ice, you may not be able to confess your feelings to her ever. This is the first step.

2. Start with friendship

Slightly risky, but begin by being ‘friends.’ Don’t overdo it and fall into the friend-zone, but maintain a healthy friendship with the girl you like. Wouldn’t it be great to fall in love with your best friend? So, start by being friends with her, if you really have to name the relationship you both share.

3. Ascertain her feelings

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Here comes the part where you need to play ‘Sherlock’. By now, you would have been able to test the waters and see if there is any sort of reciprocation from her end. You’ll simply know it by now if she has even a teeny weeny interest in you, besides friendship. If she does, it will be clear, and if she doesn’t, she would have ignored you by now. If she has been responding to your every message/call without being overly fussy, then you know you still have a chance.

4. Think hard about it

After thinking about her, you have to think about yourself. Be true to yourself and understand what these feelings are that you are experiencing. Could this be puppy love or an infatuation? Or is this more than simply something fun? Think about how far you want to take this, and whether it truly is worth it. Start with the pros and cons method in your mind. Would you lose too much if she rejected you? What would it mean to you if she said yes? Think about everything clearly. Make notes if you like, and challenge yourself to see if you really want this.

5. Do some ground work

After you have dropped subtle and not-so-subtle hints, it’s time to lay some groundwork for your big confession. You could start talking to her friends (if you know them well or have met them more than once), understand from them what she feels about you. Whether or not she talks about you at all. Does she have romantic feelings for you that she may have mentioned to her close inner circle. You may want to know that before you take the plunge.

6. Mentally prepare for it

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No matter what her answer will be when you finally tell her about your feelings, be prepared to hear anything. Mentally brace yourself for the worst, so then anything slightly better than that would make you feel better. So, prepare yourself before you make the move.

II) Execution stage: This stage will consist of all the things you need to do while you’re on the move!

7. Flirt

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So, you’ve finished the part where all the planning has happened, and now it’s time for some real time action. You can test the waters by flirting either over calls, messages, or simply doing it face to face. Be mindful of not making it sexual or uncomfortable for her to comprehend what’s on your mind. You could sometimes be sending the wrong message, so be careful and a little sensitive towards her.

8. Be romantic

Take her on dates and specify that these are ‘dates’ and not just you both hanging out as friends! Keep telling her about how it’s so special to be around her, and that you enjoy doing so. Don’t let her out of sight and meet her often for these little romantic rendezvous.

9. Make sure you confess in private

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So, don’t go all fancy and surprise her in front of her whole family or in a movie theatre. Keep this intimate moment private and let it happen when you both are alone. This way, you will have her undivided attention, and will be able to focus on what you want to say to her in a meaningful manner.

10. Maintain eye contact, hold hands

Use the little gestures that have an impact, maintain eye contact when you talk to her. If necessary, hold hands with her; you can kiss her too, if she seems agreeable to it. Body language is extremely important, and to have the right impact, use it to your benefit.

11. Write it down maybe

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If it’s really hard to say it as is, you can write down your feelings on a piece of paper and hand it over to her. A love letter never gets old. It’s always in vogue and is a very meaningful way to show her how you feel about her. It’s always nice to put it out there and have her read it and see her expression. Some people find it easier to express themselves by writing than talking, so be it.

12. Mean it when you say it

If you yourself don’t mean what you say, she won’t believe it either. So whatever your intention is, mean every bit of what you say. Make it as heartfelt as possible. You can tell her how you feel, even if you’re not a poet. It will make her feel confident about this relationship, and she will find it easy to imagine a relationship with you.

We’re sure you’ll get a positive response if you follow these 12 steps before confessing your love to the girl you like. A strategically planned exercise will never let you down, and we’re positive that after reading the above, you will be able to achieve what you set out for. Don’t give up or underestimate yourself. If it’s meant to be, she will not reject you.

Lastly, don’t be afraid of rejection. Everyone goes through it at some point in their life. Here are 12 ways on how to confess your love to a girl, but be prepared for everything (including rejection). It isn’t the end of the world. Like they say, some things happen for a reason, and at times, it may be difficult to comprehend what is what. But, in the end, it will all make sense and you’ll be thankful for how things worked out for you. Until that day, you may curse your luck but rejection sure isn’t the end of the world and it can happen to anyone. So, brace yourself for anything.