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Is It Normal to Never Fight in a Relationship?

This article was co-authored by Kelli Miller, LCSW, MSW and by wikiHow staff writer, Eric McClure. Kelli Miller is a Psychotherapist, Author, and TV/radio host based in Los Angeles, California. Kelli is currently in private practice and specializes in individual and couples’ relationships, depression, anxiety, sexuality, communication, parenting, and more. Kelli also facilitates groups for those struggling with alcohol and drug addiction as well as anger management groups. As an author, she received a Next Generation Indie Book Award for her book «Thriving with ADHD: A Workbook for Kids» and also wrote «Professor Kelli’s Guide to Finding a Husband». Kelli was a host on LA Talk Radio, a relationship expert for The Examiner, and speaks globally. You can also see her work on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/kellibmiller, Instagram @kellimillertherapy, and her website: www.kellimillertherapy.com. She received her MSW (Masters of Social Work) from the University of Pennsylvania and a BA in Sociology/Health from the University of Florida.

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If you’ve ever had a relationship where you and your partner were always at each other’s throats, it can feel strange to find yourself in a relationship that isn’t full of conflict. You may feel like something is off, or that it’s just too good to be true. You can take a deep breath, though; you probably don’t have anything to worry about. While it’s healthy to disagree occasionally in a relationship, the absence of conflict early on in a relationship is extremely normal. On top of that, it’s possible that you and your partner do fight—you just do it in a way that’s so healthy and productive that it doesn’t feel like it! In any case, if you want to know more about how much fighting is considered normal and diagnose whether this is a problem or not for you, you’re in the right place.

This article is based on an interview with our relationship expert, Kelli Miller, licensed pyschotherapist and award-winning author. Check out the full interview here.