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18 Signs You’ve Found Your Soulmate

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Spiritually speaking, it is said that even before you were born, the name of your spiritual half has been determined. Each soul has a perfect match… your soulmate.

Although most people think of a soulmate as a perfect harmonious union of bliss, your true spiritual soulmate is the person who is intended to help you “complete yourself.”

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Jerry McGuirewas right – soul mates complete each other. A person is unable to complete his mission in life alone. Everyone needs someone to help them become a better person. This is not always a blissful experience.

Being in an honest, sincere, and committed soulmate relationship helps you to become a better version of yourself. You have to push yourself beyond your comfort zone, beyond your limits to find your better self.

Even though we tend to think of soul mates as a symbiotic union; soulmate relationships can be rough at the beginning. They can be like two jagged edged puzzle pieces trying to click into place. Sometimes it looks like you do not fit together at all, but soon after a little bit of twisting, turning, and flipping the pieces around, you feel the moment of the perfect click. It’s a feeling deep in your soul, that says, this is the right one.

Often soulmates appear in disguise. You might not be physically attracted to each other when you first meet, but there is a mysterious force pushing you forward that tells you this is “the right one” for you.

You have a personal checklist of everything you want in a partner. Tall- check. Dark hair (no curls please)-check. Blondes only-check. 6 pack abs- check. Or you can be likeJerry Seinfeldwho knows his date is not “the one” becauseshe eats her peas one at a time.

So, if you are brave enough to move away from your romance checklist, open your eyes and your heart to unexpected possiblities, you might just be one of the lucky ones who finds their true soul match.

You know you’ve found your soulmate when:

1. You just know it.

Something deep inside tells you this is the perfect one for you. It’s as if there is a spiritual force pushing you to let go of everything you previously expected and to give of yourself completely.

2. You have crossed paths before.

Soulmates have met each other and a previous time. You may not have connected, but you were in the same place, at the same time. Before my husband and I met, we lived across the street from each other and worked across the street from each other. Yet we never met until the time was right.

3. Your souls meet at the right time.

Each person has to be ready to receive the soul connection. Even though my husband and I were in close proximity of each other for many years, we did not meet until the time was right for both of us. You have to be prepared to meet your soulmate. It could be that you have to go through a relationship that doesn’t work out, or that you’re not ready to ditch your “perfect person checklist,” but when it comes to soulmates- timing is everything.

4. Your quiet space is a peaceful place.

Being quiet together is comforting like a fluffy down blanket on a cold winter night. Whether you are reading in the same room, or driving in the car, there’s a quiet peace between you.

5. You can hear the other person’s silent thoughts.

With soulmates, there is such depth to your relationship that you can feel and hear what your partner is thinking, even if it is not verbally expressed.

6. You feel each other’s pain.

You stand in each other’s shoes. You know each other so well, that the second he walks in the door, you can tell how his day was. You feel each other’s feelings: sadness, worry, and stress. And you share each other’s happiness and joy.

7. You know each other’s flaws and the benefits in them.

Yes, it’s true. Our flaws have benefits. Every trait has a positive as well as a negative side. It’s the task of each person to always look for the good, even when things don’t look so good. There is usually a benefit to each flaw. Stubborn people are good decision makers. Overly organized people are great at paying bills on time.

8. You share the same life goals.

You’re both on the same page with values, ethics, and goals. You may have a different way of reaching those goals, but you both want the same end result.

9. You’re not afraid of having a conversation.

Conversations can be challenging. Expressing concerns or attempting to make decisions is uncomfortable. Soulmates know that if they join together, they will be able to work it out.

10. You are not threatened by the need for alone time.

Whether it’s tennis three times a week or girls’ night out, you respect each other’s need for independence, knowing that when you get together, your time alone is special.

11. You don’t experience jealousy.

Pretty girls at the office or handsome personal trainers aren’t a threat to your relationship.You are secure knowing that you are the only one.

12. You respect each other’s differences and opinions.

You know you have different opinions. Often soulmates are polar opposite. At times this is challenging. These are the times when you are being forced to let the other person complete you. You still have your own opinion, but instead of agreeing to disagree, there is a deep level of respect for each other. You listen and honor the differences.

13. You don’t scream, curse, or threaten each other with divorce.

Of course you feel the anger. People unintentionally hurt each other. But soulmates aren’t nasty, hurtful, or punitive.

14. You give in because you want to make your partner happy.

Giving can often occur in unhealthy, co-dependent, or abusive relationships. But soulmates give to each other for the sole purpose of making each other happy.

15. You know how to apologize.

It’s not easy to say “I’m sorry” or admit that you did something that hurt the person you love. Soulmates realize that their actions or words cause harm. Even if they feel justified in their point of view, if their partner was hurt by it, they can easily apologize for the harm they have caused.

16. You would marry each other again.

You know this is the one and only one for you. Even through the tough times, you would choose your partner again. You feel a sense of pride in your partner.

17. You complete each other.

Yes, I’m sorry to say it but, your partner fills in your blanks. No person is perfect. We all have our strengths and weaknesses. Soulmates complete each other. It’s the yin and yang of perfect harmony. One person may be the extrovert, while one is the introvert. One may be social, while the other a homebody. Soulmates are often opposite that are attracted to a person who has their missing pieces.

18.Being in each other’s arms washes away all your stress, worries, and anxiety.

There is no place you’d rather be at the end of the day but in each other’s arms. If you had a rough day filled with disagreements, a fight with your boss or if you missed the train, whatever happened is gone the second you cuddle up together. There is a warmth in your heart, an inner peace you can feel. No words need to be spoken. All that exists is the silent, blissful union of two souls together. Two souls that were meant to be together eternally.

How To Find Your Soulmate: Finding True Love In The Modern Age

Living and loving in a modern context makes it seem like we can gratify all our desires instantly. From our apps to our favorite stores, to the way our urban cities operate, the message we get is: you can have whatever you want, any time. But in a world of increasing social connectivity, why is it that we’re all so lonely?

We crave meaningful relationships that, while few in number, are rich in quality. We crave those awe-inspiring moments when we realize the person we’re connecting with has shared the same experiences and we live for those instances in which we’re hit with the feeling that a relationship we’re present in has the quality of being “fated”. We want, in short, depth of connection and in our romantic relationships, we are always looking for “The One”, a person who is going to mirror us and help us grow while we support them in the same way.

Falling in love can be a rollercoaster ride tied to lust and infatuation in the beginning but finding a soulmate — someone who sets your heart afire and brings passion along with commitment — is a worthy kind of love you should aspire to. There is a myth that there is only one soulmate for you and finding a connection like this is rare but the truth is that finding your soulmate and falling in love with them is not only common, it’s what we all can achieve. If you aspire to a relationship deeply rooted in beauty and faith – whether that’s Christian dating, meeting Jewish singles or simply a shared spirituality – read on.

EliteSingles has successfully matched thousands of soulmate couples so we’re no stranger to finding and keeping true love in your life. Because our service starts with successful singles who know what they’re looking for, and we bring couples together based on our unique “Five Factor Model” of personality traits, our couples are don’t just find “matches”, they find their “meant to be”.

How To Find Your Soulmate By Looking Inward

If you want to find a relationship or your next date, there are several things you can do. Value yourself and take care of your body, pamper yourself, dress well, be open to trying new things, put yourself in social situations and follow good dating etiquette. You know: the same old dating advice. But how to find your soulmate is a completely different ball game because what you’re looking for is something far more meaningful and long-lasting.

Many singles who are looking to find their soulmates don’t have the whole picture — they know they want to experience that thrill of love and recognition but they don’t have faith that the person meant for them is out there. This is usually because they don’t have faith that they’re worthy of love. They think that finding their soulmate is something that happens to them. But what if we turn that conventional thinking on its head? After all, that’s what you’ll need to attract your soulmate.

Instead of going on dates that lead nowhere, look inward. Where are you at in your life and what do you really want? Many singles want to use online dating to find their soulmate but they don’t know what it is that they really want from their next relationship. It’s time to take inventory and stock of who you are. Note down the practical things about yourself — your likes and dislikes, your education level, your hobbies and your goals for example — as well as the emotional and spiritual — do you want children? Are you someone who already has a strong faith in God or wants to develop this?

Now, toy with this idea: you already know your soulmate. Does that sound untrue? Well, it may be or it may not be. The point is that finding your soulmate requires a shift in perspective and this is a very useful outlook to adopt. On some level, if you know yourself then you know what you’re looking for. Once you get clear on who you are on the inside, you can start to take responsibility to connect with yourself, to set your own boundaries and be ready to accept passionate, long-term and holistic love into your already-rich life.

Once we accept ourselves and spend time loving ourselves, when we evaluate our own worthiness and celebrate who we are and what we want from life, when we can accept these things about ourselves, our soulmate walks right into our lives.

How To Find Your Soulmate By Looking Outward

Once you’ve spent time understanding who you are and what you bring to the table, you can be ready to contemplate what you want in a partner. Running with the idea that you “already know your soulmate”, take some time to write down all the aspects you’d want in a partner. This is not a “checklist” of requirements — in fact, it’s quite the opposite.

This activity is a proven method of getting specific with what you want and getting into that mental zone of visualization. When you’re writing down all the things you’d want in your perfect soulmate, you’re also unconsciously painting all the situations and images in which you two will be committed and intimate. You’re crafting your ideal romantic relationship and you know from looking inward first that not only are you worthy of this love but that this soulmate is out there.

It’s at this point that you can begin to put yourself in social situations and keep yourself open to people that come into your life. Even if you’re an individual with strong faith, great friendships and a healthy appreciation of yourself already, living in this fast-paced modern context can make it hard to find and devote time to socializing.

And it gets a little trickier: now that you know exactly what you want in your partner (as you should!), you don’t have time to waste hanging around in bars or pubs. Let’s face it, very few meaningful relationships have started this way or continue to blossom into the long-term commitment that many singles are looking for. This is not to say it can’t happen, but the chances are significantly reduced. This is because of time, not venue; it doesn’t matter where you meet but you have to give a relationship the time it requires to get to know one another and evolve.

Many singles who use dating services like EliteSingles find it easier to be more discerning with their options, since the service is set up to deliver only a few high-quality matches that are carefully selected and manually verified by a strong support team. Once you’ve been introduced to a few matches, your search for your soulmate can move from internal to external.

Connecting in this way allows you more time to get to know your matches and find your “meant-to-be”. Because you already know what you want – you know, on a deep level, the feelings you will feel when you meet your soulmate – the journey to finding this kind of lasting love can be more enjoyable. Instead of searching for your “missing” half, you will be looking within for all the indicators of recognition to identify your soulmate.

How To Keep Your Soulmate Relationship Going Strong

When you’ve found “The One”, keeping your relationship on track is really a matter of open communication and trust. By getting clear on what you want in a partner and then celebrating and accepting yourself, you’ve already done half the work. Your soulmate has probably shown up at a point in time in your life where you were truly ready to meet them. Whether you meet online or are introduced by friends, even a soulmate relationship needs nurturing and guidance in order to flourish as a long-term commitment.

It’s likely that your soulmate shares many things in common with you. Perhaps they share the same faith because this is a very important factor to you both. They may have a similar upbringing, values, visions of what their future should look like or it may be something as simple as sharing your hobbies. But these similarities, while deepening your connection and recognition of having found your “One”, doesn’t mean that your relationship doesn’t require a commitment to growing together.

Human relationships can be messy so it’s important to trust your soulmate. Keep talking to each other and make sure to call each other out when one does something the other doesn’t like or that pushes against each other’s boundaries. In a soulmate relationship, because you’re already so well-matched, it becomes even easier to empathize with the other and understand how they must feel. But the onus is still upon you as an individual: you’ve got to make the choice to empathize with your partner and communicate with them.

Always remain in gratitude and, when it gets tough, if you can spend a few moments remembering and recounting all the things you love best about your partner, how you both found each other and know you are meant to be, working through issues becomes easy. Someday you’ll find yourself saying, “25 years…and going strong.”

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14 Soulmate Signs: How To Identify Your Soulmate

Have you wondered how to identify your soulmate, or what the soulmate signs are? Thanks to Disney movies and classic Hollywood romances, most people grew up thinking they’d find their soulmate and live happily ever after. Unfortunately, it’s common to go for decades without finding “the one” or even knowing what soulmate signs to look out for. Consequently, the concept of a soulmate may start to feel like a foolish fantasy.

However, if you look around, you’ll see there are couples who prove that soulmates are real. This means it’s possible for you to find and nurture that dream relationship too… if you look out for the relevant clues, and even ask the right questions, just like these:

How do you know when you meet your soulmate?

What does a soulmate connection feel like?

What happens when you meet your soulmate?

Here are 14 soulmate signs to keep in mind, to help you recognize when you’ve found the one.

Identify Your Soulmate With These 14 Soulmate Signs

1. You Have An Intense Intuition

When you are in a state to manifest love, there’s often a flash of recognition that occurs when you meet a soulmate. Sometimes it feels like the phenomenon of manifesting love at first sight, and at other times it’s more like a strong sense of familiarity.

So if you feel comfortable, energized, and intimate with someone even though you’ve only just met them, there’s a good chance this relationship will go the distance.

2. You’re Best Friends

There’s a myth that romantic partners can’t be close friends.

However, in truth, a strong friendship is a foundation for a lasting romance. When you meet your soulmate, you also meet your best friend!

It is still important to have friendships outside of your relationship. This simply means you just easily “get” each other on a deeper level than you usually experience, you share a sense of humor, and you quickly become each other’s number one source of support.

3. There’s Mutual Respect

Relationships often fall apart when the two people try to change each other. In contrast, soulmates respect each other on a fundamental level. Plus, this respect is based on really knowing each other (flaws and all).

So if you find yourself really accepting someone in spite of their quirks and neuroses, and you feel that acceptance directed back at you unconditionally, this may be a soulmate connection.

4. You Have The Same Vision Of The Future

This is one of the most significant signs that you’ve found your soulmate because it’s not only an indication of a deep connection but also one of the most reliable predictors of a happy partnership.

If you don’t share key values, imagine your future in the same way, and want the same sorts of things out of life, resentment grows and begins to sour the relationship. So, when you meet someone who actually sees their life unfolding in the same way you imagine your own, you’ve struck gold!

5. You Challenge Each Other

Your ideal partner will not only admire you for all you’ve done but open your eyes to all you could do. This can be challenging because it will mean that the two will often encourage one another to step out of your comfort zones.

However, the unique combination of challenge and support provided by a soulmate is a major catalyst for personal development and growth. And, in the future, you’re sure to be grateful to each other for all the encouragement and gentle prodding administered over the years!

6. You Fight For The Relationship

No relationship is without conflict, even when soulmates get together. There will always be obstacles and bumps in the road. But whether you’re trying to cope with family difficulties, financial worries, illness, career uncertainty, or parenting issues, a couple who are meant to be together will keep fighting for the relationship.

Crucially, you’ll find ways to fight together in order to make things better, because you’ll both want the relationship to survive more than you’ll want to defend your own egos.

7. You Can Be Apart, But Prefer Being Together

Soulmates are able to strike the right balance between time together and time apart. They trust each other and still feel close when they’re doing separate things, rather than being consumed with feelings that do not serve. This is when the need to understand and overcome jealousy or deal with anxiety.

At the same time, when you’re in a relationship with your soulmate you also know that you’re happiest and more fulfilled when you’re enjoying quality time as a couple.

If spending time together ever feels like a chore, consider the reason behind this.

After all, what could be better than hanging out with your best friend, favorite lover, biggest fan and main teammate?

8. You’re Comfortable Being Authentic

Finally, it’s common to have a range of masks that you wear in different situations in order to get on or fit in. However, one of the most satisfying things about being with a soulmate is that there’s no need for any pretense. Rather, you automatically behave entirely like yourself, and it feels like you’re showing each other your true selves.

Being genuine in this way opens you both to the most profound forms of intimacy and it’s often at your very first meeting that you realize this amazing potential is there.

9. You Empathise With Them

When you meet your soulmate, your empathy becomes super-charged. In other words, you feel each other’s successes and defeats as though they are your own. For example, when they receive a promotion at work it’s as though you’ve been rewarded for your skill. And when they argue with a difficult family member, it’s as though you’re involved in that conflict too. You immediately know when it’s time to celebrate and when it’s time to commiserate.

Becoming empaths in this way allows you to feel like a team, and prevents jealousy or competitiveness from developing within the relationship. Even more importantly, sensing one another’s feelings facilitates deep understanding, including in areas where others may have struggled to understand you in the past. And as a bonus, you’ll often find that soulmate empathy enhances your self-esteem, allowing you to truly see yourself and all your qualities through the eyes of a loved one for the first time.

10. You Start To Balance Each Other

There’s a common misconception that soulmates are just carbon copies of each other. In reality, finding a soul mate is more about meeting someone perfectly complementary rather than someone identical. It’s likely that you’ll have a set of compatible underlying values, for example, and a broadly similar idea of what a wonderful life together might look like. However, you may well have different family backgrounds and some contrasting personality traits. The key is that these differences don’t create clashes but rather a sense of balance.

For example, you might be very spontaneous while your perfect match is a bit more considered. Between you, you’ll take care to make a decision but won’t labor over it forever. Meanwhile, perhaps you’re more outgoing and they’re on the reserved side. This will mean you sometimes have different needs, but your quieter partner will help to ground you and you, in turn, will help them become more social.

11. You’re Both Aware Of Each Other’s Emotional Languages

The core thought behind “emotional languages” or “love languages” is that we all express and experience love in different ways.

This means that sometimes, we can be expressing our sincere care for someone and yet find that it doesn’t land with them because they speak another “language”.

While you don’t need to have the same language as your partner, soulmates invariably at least understand how to speak each other’s emotional language.

Sometimes, despite of our best intentions, it’s very easy to not make our partners feel loved.

Here are the five main emotional languages through which you might communicate love.

If your soul mate speaks the emotional language of acts of service, say, you’ll know that they’ll feel your love most keenly when you fix something around the house. Meanwhile, if your emotional language is physical touch, your partner will know you need a hug when you’re feeling low.

12. You Completely Trust Your Partner

None of us feel perfectly secure constantly. If you are aware of your partner’s worth, you’ll be aware that other people are likely to notice it too. This can make you feel a little jealous sometimes. However, if you’re with your soulmate, these feelings should be fleeting and they should have nothing to do with mistrusting your partner. For example, it’s one thing to suspect your partner’s work colleague might be flirting with them, and quite another thing to try and forbid your partner from seeing this person. In the former case, you’re just feeling a little territorial – in the latter, you’re controlling and untrusting.

However, even with a soul mate, you may need to work at learning how to trust someone. If you’ve been hurt before, it may be hard to relax into love. In time, however, if you’re with your perfect match then you’ll offer and receive total trust.

13. You’ve Crossed Each Other Paths Before

It’s common to ask “Have I already met my soulmate?”

Crossing their path is usually accompanied by a strong sense of familiarity.

The answer is yes. You have almost certainly met each other at some past time, and just not quite made a soul connection.

For example, it’s common to discover you’ve lived in the same town as someone for years before meeting. Or even to find out that you work on the floor above them at your office.

You’ll only meet when the time is right. When you’re both ready to build something real and lasting out of that early bond.

14. You Don’t Threaten Each Other

Finally, while everyone argues at times, this will never devolve into emotional abuse with your soulmate. This means that you don’t try to hurt each other with cruel words, threaten each other with separation, or play power games. If you’re with an emotionally abusive partner, this is a strong sign that they aren’t the right match for you. Of course, there will be times when one of you hurts the other, but in the right relationship, such pain is never deliberate and there is a shared desire to work on improving communication and clarity so as to avoid future conflict.

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How to Recognise Your Soulmate

This article was co-authored by Christina Jay, NLP. Christina Jay is a Matchmaker and Certified Life Coach based in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. Christina is the founder of Preferred Match (preferredmatch.ca), her matchmaking service that finds love for successful and elite individuals. She has over 10 years of coaching experience, earned her NLP (Neuro-linguistic Programming) certification through NLP Canada Training, and has a BA in Business Administration from Brock University.

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The term «soulmate» usually refers to someone you have an intense chemistry with. Under some spiritual belief systems, it’s believed that soulmates are people you have shared experience in past lives with. [1] X Research source Although it is certainly debatable whether there’s such a thing as a literal soulmate, the fact remains that everyone wants to find someone that really understands them. Even if finding someone special is a priority, it can be very difficult and can’t be rushed. Knowing how to spot your soulmate is every bit as important as finding her.

How to Find Your Soulmate Using Astrology

Astrology is capable of many things. It can tell a lot about a person, help set out on the right professional path, build strong relationships, and even slightly correct fates. We agree that a lot depends on the actions of the person himself, but astrology, in turn, can act as a guide and gently push to right decisions.

What about soulmates? Is it somehow related to stars and other celestial bodies? Can astrology assist in this vitally important question that arouses so much interest? Is the information stars provide really reliable, can it be used in your daily life?

People are crazy about finding a congenial person who will understand them without words. They strive for pulling the separated pieces of former souls together and, thus, restore intimate connections.

So, good news. There is nothing impossible. This is within the power of the science to help you find your soulmate using astrology, and there are several ways to make it. Read on and get closer to finding the person who you are connected with at the deepest spiritual level.

In this article:

What is a soulmate according to astrology?

Not only inveterate romantics and zealots of snotty films believe in the soulmate phenomenon. Everyone deep down wants to meet a truly close-minded person who he is connected with by an invisible red thread.

It would sound a little bit trite but soulmate, first of all, is someone who you can be yourself with when you feel comfortable and safe. It also seems to you at very first contact that you have known each other for many years.

It is not like an electric current and has nothing to do with butterflies in the stomach. This kind of connection gives you a sense of stability, and you immediately feel the unity and kinship at the highest level.

They say that people meet their zodiac soulmates when they are ready to let them in their lives as well as ready for a transformation.

The connection with a soul mate leads to spiritual growth to make your best qualities more visible, to teach you to give and receive.

Get an individual astrological forecast

You should also keep in mind that soulmates are not for completing you but rather for revealing your inner gems to make you live your best life.

The major misconceptions are that a soul mate is definitely related to love affairs only. Listen, not always. It could be a friend, a teacher, or someone third.

One of the results of such a relationship between soul mates is the evolution of the spirit. This is a kind of close spiritual partnership when you constantly improve each other. And this process goes naturally, without strain.

You can’t confuse this with anything. So when you meet such a person you will definitely not be mistaken. “When will i meet my soulmate”, you ask? We’ll get to that eventually!

How can astrology help you find a soulmate?

We often come across on the Internet specially made tests and quizzes that promise to help you find a zodiac soulmate. When it comes to so-called serious astrology, it has nothing in common with entertainment. It demands deep immersion and a detailed study of the issue.

Soulmate by birthday wouldn’t necessarily become your best friend for life, or an ideal partner, however, it would be nice to know that the person you like has some sort for spiritual connection with you on a deeper level.

All you need is a belief in astrological methods described below, and desire to get to know your twin soul and not lose sight of it when the time comes.

Understanding zodiac signs

You are likely to know that astrology can provide you with information about zodiac signs compatibility. However, not only this.

Getting a closer look at zodiac signs is the easiest way to approach to the understanding of astrological soulmates.

Here it is necessary to mention Juno – the goddess of unions and marriage. Juno sign is an indicator of devotion, jealousy, affection. It expresses your expectations regarding a partner and relationships.

If you are not still familiar with your Juno sign, figure it out with the aid of a birth chart calculator.

So, what should each sign pay attention to recognize the One?

Aries

Your soulmate will not let you break his spirit, and will resist your pressure. This is an active, ambitious, and assertive person who makes the ground shrink beneath his feet. He will appear to fuel your life, and will never pull the rug out from your feet.

Taurus

Your spiritual partner will come to embrace you and provide a sense of security. He will defend you from offenders and will protect your sensitive nature. In addition, this person will help you make important life decisions, and keep an eye on all the small details.

Gemini

This person will enter your life to open your eyes wider as well as activate your better half. It is someone who can teach you a life vital lesson, become an example, and explain that you should take into account other people’s feelings not only yours. One of the frequently asked questions on the Internet is “Are Gemini and Sagittarius soulmates?” Draw a conclusion yourself based on a small description above.
Gemini soulmate should be a really clear picture for you at this point, based on qualities we’ve described.

Cancer

Take your time to recognize the One among a lot of people who enter and go out of your life. The One will put your needs first despite his own. It will have the same big heart as yours, and be extremely sensitive and empathetic.

As soon as you meet someone who you would like to share your supremacy with, consider him your spiritual twin. It will be a prominent individual who will always keep a fire burning and will be on your side.

Virgo

Your soulmate will come to teach you to live easier. It will be someone to motivate you and meet your requirements and high expectations. Virgo soulmate is a someone who can both take life seriously and give in to chill sometimes. He is likely to boost your self-confidence and switch off excessive criticism upon others and yourself.

Libra

It will be someone to bring more beauty, aesthetics, and taste into your life. This person will not alter your balance in any case but rather firmly set your scales. Your soul mate is a dreamer like you. Someone who is extremely romantic and with an eye to small and charming things.

Scorpio

The One of Scorpio is a combination of passion, adventures, and, of course, a backbone. Hiding in his rich inner world and considering it the best place on Earth, Scorpio has no desire to let someone else in. As soon as he sees potential and devotion in someone, he will open the doors and invite in. It will mean that two soulmates have finally found each other. The problem of “how to find the soulmate” will simply cease to exist at this point.

Sagittarius

Sagittarius is always too busy traveling and looking for new adventures and has absolutely no time to look around. His soul mate is someone who will teach to slow down and balance between rushing and calm. This person will be your best companion and the gulp of fresh air that you are striving for getting throughout your life.

Capricorn

Capricorn’s soulmate is definitely someone with a strong spirit, tenacious and courageous. He will inspire you and will never let you give up. You will learn to loosen up together and not to treat life so seriously. At the same time, the inner strength of the Capricorn soulmate will give you additional motivation when it comes to fighting hard times.

Aquarius

The spiritual twin of Aquarius is someone unique with an analytical mind, and a philosophical vision. He must be educated and smart. This person should not be afraid of taking risks and facing challenges. Together, you are an explosive mixture, pushing each other to move forward and have no regrets.

Pisces

The kindred soul of Pisces is a person who knows how not to let him lose himself in the world of fantasies. This person will protect his vulnerable nature, infuse confidence in him, and support everything he believes in. Pisces soulmate would be one the most generous givers when it comes to relationships, regardless of their nature: love or friendship.

Have a look at your natal chart

A natal chart is a comprehensive picture of a person’s life. When it comes to soulmate astrology, a birth chart is focused more on you and explains your expectations regarding your spiritual twin. To be honest, it will not give you an accurate answer to the question “Who is my soulmate?” or “When will I find my soulmate?”. However, it can provide you with another data, very helpful, and necessary for the search for a soul mate. Is my natal chart is such a powerful tool, you ask? It is, we answer.

The Seventh House

It is usually compared with a mirror that we can see ourselves in. It is no coincidence that certain partners come to our life. This house characterizes the potential marriage partner and the type of relationship with him as well as a business partnership and a soul mate. Astrologers analyze the Planets that are in this House. A kind, essentially strong, and harmoniously aspected planet in a partnership House will attract a good partner to the native and set it up to create successful relationships.

Aspects between Mars and Venus

If these two Planets work in harmony, it means that there is a chance to build a happy couple. Pay attention to the aspects between the Planets: the sextile (60 degrees), the trine (120 degrees) are the most promising when the square (90 degrees), and the opposition (180 degrees) present some challenges for partners. Mars and Venus are also responsible for sexual relations between people. An excellent aspect of sexual compatibility is considered to be the Mars of a man in the aspect with Venus of a woman.

At first sight, this data might seem a little bit far from the topic. Nevertheless, when looking for a soulmate, you never know which method may be the most effective for you personally.

The Outer Planets

It’s necessary to take into account Uranus, Neptune, and Pluto when determining the quality of a relationship. Also, pay attention to the aspects between these planets as well as Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars, Jupiter, and Saturn between the charts.

The North Node of the Moon

It comes to action when the One enters your life. If your or your partner’s North Node intersects with one of the unique planets in the chart, it is a signal flag that a soulmate has been spotted.

There are other aspects to consider in your natal chart and compare the key factors with other people’s charts. Put on your hat of patience, and you’ll definitely find what you’re looking for.

Create a synastry birth chart

Synastry or relationship astrology deals with issues of compatibility between people. Previously, it was customary to evaluate the compatibility of a couple based on temperaments, for example. However, with the development of this new section of astrology, it became clear that you need to look deeper.

Therefore, a synastry chart shows what kind of relationships people have or will have on an emotional, sexual, business, domestic, and even unconscious level.

Please note: the synastry helps to deal with an existing partner, as the charts of two people are taken into account. If you are looking for a soul mate and you still have no one in mind – turn to other astrological methods.

Looking at the maps of 2 people, it’s possible to clarify their main points of contact and describe all the interactions or inactions between them.

How to make a synastry chart?

To savor the privileges of synastry, you need to create or compare if you have already created two natal charts. Take your personal information (date of birth, time of birth, city of birth), and the data of your partner. Two natal charts are imposed on each other, by transferring elements of the natal chart of one person into the natal horoscope of another.

Based on the interactions of the elements of the so-called double map, you can draw a conclusion about a possible scenario of your relations.

There is also a so-called synastry chart calculator or soulmate astrology calculator. You need to input your name, date, time, and place of birth as well as do the same with your partner. Based on this data, the calculator gives you a report on your potential spiritual kinship.

One more way: first, the astrologer analyzes the natal charts of each partner individually. Considering one birth chart, you can understand what kind of relationship the person wants to get, assess his picture of the world, and expectations regarding a partner in general.

What should you pay attention to in the synastry?

It is important to understand that our attitude to people, in general, is initially determined by our natal chart. And our attitude to a specific person is determined by synastry, or how it is called in narrow circles soulmate synastry.

Ascendant and Descendant

It is believed that Ascendant shows you to the world when Descendant shows the world to you. Basically, there are 12 variants of the Ascendant in signs, and the same number of variants of the DS too. In short, the interaction between two AS denotes the harmony or potential conflicts. As for the DS, it hit into the partner’s houses matters. For example, DS in 5 or 11 houses is an excellent position for friendly participation in all matters.

To make any conclusions, one or two factors are not enough. In the synastry chart, there are bundles of planets, aspects, etc. However, the detailed study of AS and DS of both partners and their interaction is vital, and can’t be omitted.

The Nodes of the Moon

There is an opinion that the Nodes of the Moon are related to past lives and interactions. Here, the aspects of the nodes’ axes between themselves and aspects of planets to nodes are usually considered.

For example, such combination as North on North or South on South denotes that two people are brought together by a common task which each of them prepared for individually. At present, they have a chance to lead accumulated experience towards a common goal.

The Vertex and anti-Vertex

They are sometimes called an unconscious Descendant. These are the points of intersection with the ecliptic of the First Meridian. To be more precise, a circle passing through the points of the east, west at the time of birth (or event) at the geographical point of birth. The western intersection is Vertex, the eastern is anti-Vertex.

In the interpretation of any natal chart, the vertex and anti-vertex axis indicates events or people whose influence in life will be very strong. In synastry, if the partners’ vertices have major aspects (orb 1-3 degrees), then such a relationship is crucial for the life of those who meet. There are also other nuances to take into account: the House which the Vertex is located in, which Houses are the planets in that aspect Vertex, and which houses they control, etc.

Sun-Moon Connections

The connection of the Sun and the Moon in the horoscopes of two partners is the most important indicator of their psychological and emotional compatibility. And also both sextile and trine, formed by the Moon in the horoscope of one partner and the Sun of another can tell a lot. This issue needs a deep study to determine what exactly these heavenly bodies symbolize for you.

It is also advised to have a closer look at Neptune in any aspect with another person’s personal Planets, Sun-Sun connections, Sign interchanges, and lots more. Synastry is a big chapter of the overall astrology and can provide you with a lot of information regarding particular relations if you are ready to allow some time.

Delve deep into Karmic astrology

Karmic astrology says that all souls are connected. However, there is a group of the most closely related characters – a cluster of souls. The participants in one cluster are called karmic partners. The path of karmic relationships began long before the present time. This type of relationship is designed to change something within you as well as for the mutual transformation of both partners.

When it comes to denoting soulmates, Karmic astrology focuses on the House of the lunar nodes, as well as the planets in conjunction with them.

For example, the South Node is in the 4th House and the North Node in the 10th – both parents and the boss are your karmic partners; Venus in conjunction with the South Node means that the karmic partner is your spouse, and in conjunction with the North Node – your daughter (if any).

What are some signs of soulmates?

As we have already mentioned several times, a soulmate is someone who motivates you to become better. No matter, whether with his actions, words, or just presence in your life. Here are some other signs to take into account:

If none of these tips hasn’t managed to persuade you, listen to your gut feeling. It is really powerful and rarely fails.

Get an individual astrological forecast

Is it possible to learn how and when will you find your soulmate?

“When will I find my soulmate?” is one of the most popular questions. Astrology is a really powerful science. However, it can’t tell you an accurate time, date, and place. What is more, it would be a little creepy if you know it cold.

Conclusion

The methods mentioned above can give you some directions and slightly push to follow them. Using astrology you can discover a lot of nuances about your personality as well as get a clear idea of a person you are spiritually related to.

All you need is to believe, have your eyes and heart open. Good luck finding a soulmate. May the celestial bodies be with you!

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