How to Seduce a Leo Man

This article was co-authored by Joshua Pompey and by wikiHow staff writer, Amber Crain. Joshua Pompey is a Relationship Expert with over 10 years of helping people navigate the online dating world. Joshua has run his own relationship consulting business since 2009 at a success rate of over 99%. His work has been featured in CNBC, Good Morning America, Wired, and Refinery29 and he has been referred to as the best online dater in the world.

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If you’re crushing on a fiery and passionate Leo, you’re probably wondering how to harness all of that sexual energy behind closed doors! Seducing a lion is actually pretty straightforward as long as you know what aspects of his personality to appeal to. Don’t worry, in this article, we plan to tell all. Read on to learn everything you need to know about attracting, seducing, and winning the heart of a sexy Leo man.

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How To Seduce A Man: 30 Simple Tips That Work Like A Charm

Posted on Last updated: March 15, 2022

She needs to listen carefully to what men say and to learn from her past mistakes. I am not saying it will be easy to do that but it will pay off eventually.

There is a valid reason why men pull away in the early stages.

They just see their potential partner as too pushy and although they haven’t started anything yet, it feels like they are suffocating.

The thing is you should give him space and he will come back (if he is into you, of course).

Men are not complicated if you learn to read between the lines. I am not saying you should do this right away but after you get to know him better, you will understand a thing or two about him.

You will at least know how he functions and what the right path to his heart is.

Learn literally everything there is to know about interpreting his signals RIGHT HERE. Making this decision is not something you’ll regret, I promise you that.

Once you learn what kind of man he is and what he is passionate about, it will be easier to win him over.

Seducing him won’t be a big problem at all. In fact, it will be a piece of cake for you.

Maybe you won’t meet the one this month or t his year. But he will come along when it is the right time.

Please bear in mind that we can’t affect some things and some of them will happen no matter whether we want them or not.

On the other hand, something that we have been waiting such a long time for will take so much time to become a part of our life.

But this is all life and we should be patient. Remember those good things don’t happen overnight. It takes a lot of time and love experience to find a man who will be worthy of you.

I know it will sometimes be tough and you will ask yourself if he exists. But when you least expect him, he will show up in your life. And once he appears, he will make you the happiest woman alive.

At that moment, you will forget all about the waiting and asking God if he will ever come.

But before he even comes along, you are allowed to live your life to the fullest. Once you are with him, you don’t want to cry over the things you never did.

Live a life you will be proud of and show him what it feels like to have a free spirit and an open mind.

If he is the one, he will understand it all. But until the right one comes along, I will show you some great ways how to seduce any man you like.

MAKE HIM YOURS RIGHT NOW. Find out the exact steps you should make for success.

If you have been single for a while and now you feel it’s time to find your soulmate, here are some simple tips on seducing a man.

So, read carefully. This is going to be a hot topic.

How to seduce a married man: 16 tips that really work

According to infidelity statistics, cheating is pretty common in all relationships, and that includes marriages too.

As many as one in five men will cheat on their wives. That means if you want to seduce a married man, the good news is, it’s certainly possible.

But seducing a man who is married isn’t as straightforward as how to get a guy to like you who is single. You’ll need a whole different set of tricks up your sleeves.

You can’t rush in and be too obvious, or you risk scaring him off. You need to walk the fine line of catching his attention and playing it cool.

In this article, we’ll cover all the essential tips on how to seduce a married man and exactly why they work.

1) Dress sexier around him

I’m sure you could just as easily charm him with your wit and intellect as you can with your looks. But here’s the thing, statistically speaking, most men end up cheating because of strong physical attraction to a woman.

Women are more likely to stray for emotional reasons but men say physical reasons are what turn their heads. This is where men and women differ. A poll from Superdrug Online Doctor found that both sexes gave very different reasons for infidelity.

Whereas for women the most likely reason is feeling neglected by their partners, for guys, the most common reason was that the person they had an affair with was “very hot.”

That means your secret weapon could be in what you wear, and how you look around him. Whilst you probably don’t want to go overboard and into full vamp mode, wearing more subtly sexy clothing around him is likely to get his attention.

That might mean showing a little more flesh, or making more of an effort in your appearance whenever he is around.

2) Pay him attention

A lot of unhappily married men have forgotten what it’s like to be desired.

One of the fastest ways to flatter his ego and let him know that you’re interested in him, without giving everything away, is simply to pay him plenty of attention.

Listen to him, ask him questions about the things he is interested in, show you are curious about him, ask his opinions to show you value his thoughts.

You can also pay him little compliments. Tell him how good he smells today, or that you love that color on him. Guys want to feel like they’re attractive just as much as women do.

A little bit of flattery can go a long way — especially if he’s not getting those things from his wife.

3) Make him feel like a hero

If you know that a guy isn’t happy at home then there is most likely something that his wife is not doing which you can take advantage of.

The hero instinct is a new psychological theory about what makes guys tick, and if you want to seduce a married man, then you definitely need to know about it.

According to the hero instinct every man is biologically driven to seek certain things from his romantic relationships.

It’s written in his DNA to want to prove himself to you, protect and provide.

If it sounds a bit caveman, you have to remember that this is about genetics and not stereotypical gender roles.

Guys are subconsciously looking for women who can make them feel like a hero, and it’s actually pretty simple to trigger this in him once you learn how.

James Bauer, the relationship psychologist who first coined this term, reveals exactly what you need to do in this free online video.

4) Send flirty texts

Texting and social media messages have to be one of the best modern tools available for some covert flirting.

These days, you can even tell by text alone if a guy likes you. Similarly, we all know that being trigger happy with the likes on someone’s social media page is their big glaring sign to say “hello, I’m interested”.

It’s especially great for seducing a married man as it all happens in the privacy of your DM’s.

Exchanging messages in between seeing one another is the perfect way to increase your connection, show you are interested, and do some subtle teasing too. Sending the perfect text can be what catapults your relationship to the next level.

A few well-placed winky face emojis can work wonders to start turning things flirtatious.

You can always start simply by increasing the communication between you. Try sending a few funny memes or making more conversation between you two to show your interest.

Once you’ve already established a mutually chatty online connection, you can then turn up the heat a little and make things more frisky.

Remember that guys are turned on by what they see, so you could send a picture of yourself in a new outfit (although nothing too risque). Tell him you’re going out tonight and ask him for his opinion on what you’re wearing.

Above all else, be sure to keep it playful and light.

5) Eye contact

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Straight guys can be seduced if you know what you’re doing

By: Kevin in Miami

Seducing a straight guy is a lot easier than you think. I should know because I’ve hooked up with dozens of them over the past 10-years.

Some of those experiences were fulfilling. Others totally sucked. But all of them happened because I made the conscious choice of taking control.

You see if you want to get with a straight guy, it’s not going to happen through magic. You’re going to have to put some work into it. But if you play your cards right, you should be able to have your way with relative ease.

I’m telling you this because the research suggests that straight guys go gay a lot more than you think. But here’s the thing. They don’t necessarily think what they are doing is “gay” when they experiment.

Keep this in mind as you go about your business.

Straight guys can go gay – be ready to make your move

Here’s a quick story to set it up for you. Recently, I hooked up with a 25-year old AT&T tech named Cody*. He was dispatched to my condo for Internet repairs.

The guy is 6’0 with jet black hair and brownish eyes. He’s got a medium, muscular build that’s not overdone. He also has a super masculine presence. While the body types are different, his face and manhood are similar to reality TV personality and body builder, Leo Stronda (see this totally not safe for work link to get an idea).

And one more thing about Cody – he’s married with kids.

But those last two facts didn’t stop me from draining him out like a helpless ragdoll – multiple times. In fact, he’s heading over to my place this weekend.

If you are interested in how to seduce straight men like Cody, this article is for you. I’m going to teach you how to make it happen in ways that might surprise you.

In this article, you’ll learn:

About Me

Before continuing, I figured you might want to know a little about me. It’s only fair, right? OK, here it goes. I’m 35 years old and live in Miami. While I’m certainly not a model, I do OK in the looks department.

Like you, I’m into hot guys. And in order to attract the type of men that I like, I work out a lot at my gym. I go out of my way to give off a laid back “beach boy” vibe, even though I’m pretty neurotic.

Finally, I have a thing for manly men. And the biggest turn on in the world (at least to me) is siphoning out a straight guy’s juice and swallowing it whole. I know that may sound sick but I’m trying to keep it real.

When it happens it’s so cool!

Here’s why I like it.

When you drain him out, he’s inside of you for the entire day. In other words, his “straightness” is careening through your system.

Finally, I consider myself a top. It doesn’t turn me on at all to try and make some hetero guy bottom. In fact, it’s a real turn off.

In my experience, most breeders won’t go for that. But they are super curious. And that curiosity is what makes them vulnerable to guys like me – and hopefully, you.

OK, here are the tips!

How to seduce a straight guy

1. Get your confidence up

I’m here to tell you nothing will ever happen unless you act with confidence. Not to throw cold water on your plans but when something does happen, it’s not going to be like a gay story fantasy where the dude just decides to put out.

Instead, you’ve got to be the one in charge. That process begins by showing confidence. And like it or not, that means carrying yourself in a manly way.

Please don’t be offended by that last part. I’m just cluing you in from personal experience.

Here are some pointers:

2. Get his guard down

I am sure this point will offend some but if you ever want to get that straight guy off, you need to think like he does.

I’m not saying you should pretend to be straight but instead, be aware of his mindset.

Here’s some tips:

3. Don’t hide that you are gay

One of the worst pieces of advice that people give when it comes to seducing a straight guy is to be ambiguous about sexual orientation.

I say this because if the dude thinks you are 100% hetero, nothing will ever happen.

Instead, I recommend the following:

4. Build Camaraderie

I’ve never once hooked up with a straight guy on the first try. It’s always been the norm that I invest time in relationship building and establish trust.

If you have followed points 1-4 above correctly, you should be well on your way to strengthening the bond.

Additional tips include:

5. How to make the first move

This is understandably the most difficult step when it comes to seducing a straight guy. I’m going to cut through all of the BS and get right to it.

When the time is right, you’ll know. Along the way, he’s going to give you important signals you can’t ignore. These include laughing at your jokes, asking you questions and occasionally doing some “bro-touching”. Just go with it.

But here is where the rubber meets the road. At some point, you will need to be direct and let him know you want to mess around.

From experience, the best way to do this is in private. You have a number of choices. I’ll preface this part by saying that if he pushes back against any of it, don’t take offense. Just drop it and move on.

OK here’s what’s worked for me.

6. Avoid making the experience “gay”

Remember what I mentioned at the start of this article. Most straight guys are curious about what it might be like with another man. But the last thing they want is to think what they are doing is “gay”.

We can argue until the cows come home about what constitutes “gay”, “straight” or “bi”. But that’s not the point here. The goal is to connect with him and drain him out.

Instead of reinventing the wheel, I’ll direct you to the other article I wrote about how to give a bro job. The key here is to avoid “making love” to his Johnson.

Down the road, if he comes back for more, you can amp things up. But that first time, it’s best just to get down to business.

Here’s what I do to make him completely comfortable and to avoid awkwardness.

7. Making him come back for more

If you have played your cards right, he’s going to get ahold of you in the future. That’s because he not only trusts you, he also knows that you do a good job of getting him off.

But here is the thing – don’t be the first one to reach out. Instead, let him be the one to do it. He may do it by text or a phone call. Either way, he’s the one who needs to make contact.

If you send him a text after draining him out and say something like, “Yeah that was hot – did you like?”, you’ve forgotten rule number 7. If you are good at what you do, there shouldn’t be any question if he was into it.

8. Taking it slow on future encounters

Assuming you’ve done everything right, he’s likely going to get in touch with you again. Based on experience, I’m going to tell you here that this is not a green light for more aggressive play.

You’re going to have to go through a period where all he’s going to want is quick service. Be open to that. But at some point, he’ll curious about what it’s like to do more.

How and what happens next depends on the guy. I’ve met straight but curious men who are all about reciprocation. I’ve met others who want to penetrate [something I don’t do]. And finally, I’ve even met dudes who want to feel what it’s like to get banged out.

The point here is to take things slow and let him be the one to lead. You can encourage here and there but ultimately, he’s got to be in the driver’s seat.

How to kiss a man guide

9. Kissing

So you’ve been hooking up with this straight guy and things have been escalating. There’s a part of you that badly wants to make out with him but you’re not sure if it’s cool.

Here’s my best advice. Don’t do it unless he makes a move in that direction. I mention this because if he starts to think it’s getting emotional, he’s going to pull back.

If he does want to make out, let him be the alpha (at least at first). Later on, you can show him how guys really kiss by reading this guide on how to make out with men.

He’ll run if he think you’re in love with him

10. Don’t fall in love

The last point I’ll make is to avoid falling in love with him. Yes, this is easier said than done. That first time you drain him, you’re going to feel a bunch of emotions. You’ll even be tempted to think of him in boyfriend terms.

Whatever you do – don’t.

Regardless of what you think of his sexual orientation, you need to recognize that he considers himself to be “straight”. We both know that the minute the two of you started messing around, his heterosexuality went out the window.

But that’s not an argument you want to have with him – or one that you will win.

Instead, remember your connection with him is physical. And it can be that way for a long time. But if you try to make him into your lover, he’s going to run for the hills.

There’s plenty of gay men out there that want to date you and husband up. Go for those guys! Think of the straight man you are doing as just that – a regular FB.

OK, that’s it for now. If you are looking to watch straight guys get it on for ideas, there’s a cool site called straight guys uncovered. Might be worth your time.